The Adoption Reunion Handbook

by Trinder, Elizabeth; Feast, Julia; Howe, David

• ISBN13: 9780470094228
• ISBN10: 0470094222
• Edition: 1st
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2005-02-18
• Publisher: WILEY

Summary

The book describes the experiences that people have had when tracing their birth parents, as well as offering practical advice on how to go about searching and what to expect emotionally. Each section has an advice box which summarizes key points, notes issues to pay particular attention to, or offers draft letters that readers can adapt for their own needs. The appendix contains useful addresses and weblinks, and includes checklists for searching and for the reunion. Chapters include reunion with birth fathers and birth siblings, as well as with birth mothers, the relationship with the adoptive family and dealing with reunions that break down.

Author Biography

DR LIZ TRINDER is a researcher into family relationships. Most of her work is in the area of contact after divorce, e.g. the recent report for the Joseph Rowntree Foundation on Making Contact. This is the first time she has written about adoption. She was herself adopted.

JULIA FEAST currently works at the British Association of Adoption and Fostering (BAAF), London, as the Policy, Research and Development Consultant. In the past she managed the post-adoption and care counselling research project, The Children’s Society and has counselled a number of people who have been adopted and also those who were brought up in Care through the search and reunion process. She has published many articles on the subject of Adoption Search and Reunion and also the information needs of children conceived as a result of donor-assisted conception. She is co-author of Preparing for Reunion: Experiences from the Adoption Circle (The Children’s Society, 1994; new edition 1998) and Adoption, Search and Reunion: The Long-Term Experience of Adopted Adults (The Children’s Society, 2000; now published by BAAF), and Searching Questions: Origins, Identity and Adoption (BAAF, 2003).

DR DAVID HOWE has a long-standing interest in all aspects of adoption. He is the author of many books, including Half a Million Women: Mothers who Lose their Children by Adoption (Penguin), Adopters on Adoption (BAAF), Patterns of Adoption: Nature, Nurture and Psychosocial Development (Blackwell Science), and, with Julia Feast, Adoption, Search and Reunion: The Long-Term Experience of Adopted Adults (The Children’s Society, 2000; now published by BAAF).

Table of Contents

About the authors	vi
Preface	vii
Foreword	ix
Acknowledgements	x
1 Introduction	1	(4)
2 Faking the first step: Birth record information	5	(14)
3 On the search trail	19	(14)
4 Reunions with birth mothers	33	(24)
5 Reunions with birth fathers	57	(12)
6 Reunions with siblings	69	(10)
7 The adoptive family and reunion	79	(18)
8 Rejection and reunions that break down	97	(14)
9 The search and reunion journey	111	(20)
Appendix: Information on search and reunion in the UK, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, Canada and the USA	131	(22)
Further reading	153	(2)
Index	155