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7 | (2) |
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9 | (1) |
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Waiting in the Hall for a Son Fighting in the Locker Room |
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11 | (2) |
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14 | (1) |
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My Son Who Can't Sit Still |
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The Day After My Son's Birthday |
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20 | (1) |
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My Father's Picture on the Cover of a Buffalo Bison's Hockey Program for 1934 |
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After My Stepfather's Death |
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To My Father, Dying in a Supermarket |
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23 | (2) |
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25 | (1) |
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26 | (1) |
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Birthday Celebration, Carl's Chop House, Detroit |
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28 | (1) |
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Driving Home to See the Folks |
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29 | (2) |
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31 | (4) |
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| Reaching Out and Letting Go |
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I Sit, Hypnotized by Storm |
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37 | (1) |
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39 | (1) |
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40 | (1) |
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If You Have Never Seen a Horse |
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41 | (2) |
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43 | (2) |
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45 | (1) |
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46 | (2) |
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49 | (2) |
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51 | (2) |
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What Is Supposed to Happen |
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54 | (2) |
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57 | (2) |
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59 | (1) |
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60 | (1) |
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I Wish I Could Hold You as The Trees Hold Their Leaves |
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61 | (1) |
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62 | (2) |
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67 | (1) |
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69 | (2) |
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71 | (4) |
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| Transitions |
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75 | (2) |
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77 | (1) |
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My Son Daniel Is Born and Wonders |
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79 | (1) |
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80 | (2) |
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Masculinity Meets His Daughter |
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82 | (2) |
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84 | (1) |
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86 | (2) |
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92 | (2) |
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95 | (3) |
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102 | (2) |
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104 | (1) |
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105 | (1) |
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106 | (2) |
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My Immigrant Mother Transplanted |
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109 | (4) |
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| Responsibilities and Expectations |
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The Invention of Childhood |
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Questions for My Grown Children |
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116 | (2) |
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118 | (2) |
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120 | (1) |
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123 | (1) |
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125 | (2) |
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129 | (1) |
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130 | (5) |
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| Tenderness |
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136 | (2) |
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139 | (2) |
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143 | (2) |
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145 | (1) |
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How to Cut Your Child's Hair at Home |
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147 | (2) |
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150 | (2) |
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Why Some Nights I Go to Bed Without Undressing |
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153 | (1) |
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154 | (2) |
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156 | (2) |
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158 | (2) |
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160 | (2) |
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The Memory of Grace at Mr. Fontayne's Doughnut Shop |
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162 | (2) |
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164 | (5) |
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| Sickness and Healing |
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169 | (2) |
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173 | (2) |
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177 | (2) |
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181 | (2) |
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183 | (2) |
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185 | (2) |
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In Sympathy, My Daughter Sleeps Beside Me |
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187 | (2) |
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Sitting in a Concrete Parking Garage |
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189 | (2) |
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191 | (2) |
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193 | (1) |
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Climbing the Mountain in Courage |
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195 | (1) |
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Canoeing at Night with my Daughter on the Bay |
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In the Early Days of the War |
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202 | (1) |
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210 | (2) |
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212 | (1) |
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213 | (1) |
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Firstborn Daughter Leaving Home |
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218 | (2) |
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220 | (3) |
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| Joy and Pleasure |
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224 | (3) |
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228 | (1) |
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229 | (1) |
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To My Son, Laughing in his Sleep |
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238 | (1) |
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239 | (2) |
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242 | (1) |
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244 | (1) |
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245 | (4) |
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251 | (2) |
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Sister's Drawings after Little Brother's Death, III |
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To a Child, a Spring Poem |
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257 | (2) |
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259 | (1) |
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260 | (1) |
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Doing Homework with a Learning Disabled Child |
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262 | (2) |
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264 | (2) |
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286 | (2) |
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288 | (2) |
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290 | (3) |
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Father's Diagnosis: Naming Names |
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301 | (2) |
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| About the Contributors |
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| Acknowledgments |
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| Index of Contributors |
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