Born for Love

by Perry, Bruce D.

• ISBN13: 9780061656798
• ISBN10: 0061656798
• Edition: Reprint
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2011-04-05
• Publisher: Harper Paperbacks

Summary

An inside look at the power of empathy: Born for Love is an unprecedented exploration of how and why the brain learns to bond with others-and a stirring call to protect our children from new threats to their capacity to loveFrom birth, when babies' fingers instinctively cling to those of adults, their bodies and brains seek an intimate connection, a bond made possible by empathy-the ability to love and to share the feelings of others.In this provocative book, renowned child psychiatrist Bruce D. Perry and award-winning science journalist Maia Szalavitz interweave research and stories from Perry's practice with cutting-edge scientific studies and historical examples to explain how empathy develops, why it is essential for our development into healthy adults, and how it is threatened in the modern world.Perry and Szalavitz show that compassion underlies the qualities that make society work-trust, altruism, collaboration, love, charity-and how difficulties related to empathy are key factors in social problems such as war, crime, racism, and mental illness. Even physical health, from infectious diseases to heart attacks, is deeply affected by our human connections to one another.As Born for Love reveals, recent changes in technology, child-rearing practices, education, and lifestyles are starting to rob children of necessary human contact and deep relationships-the essential foundation for empathy and a caring, healthy society. Sounding an important warning bell, Born for Love offers practical ideas for combating the negative influences of modern life and fostering positive social change to benefit us all.

Table of Contents

Authors' Note	p. ix
Introduction	p. 1
Heaven is Other People	p. 7
In Your Face	p. 27
Missing People	p. 45
Intense World	p. 72
Lies and Consequences	p. 96
No Mercy	p. 120
Resilience	p. 145
The Chameleon	p. 170
Us Versus Them	p. 193
Glued to the Tube	p. 211
On Baboons, British Civil Servants, and the Oscars	p. 232
Warm as Iceland	p. 259
All Together Now	p. 288
epilogue People and Programs	p. 323
Acknowledgments	p. 335
Appendix	p. 338
Notes	p. 343
Index	p. 364
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