What is included with this book?
Acknowledgments | p. x |
Introduction: About the Author, About the Book | p. xii |
Typical Inner Conflicts | p. 1 |
Am I Single-Mother Material? | p. 5 |
Can I handle it? | |
Do I have the proper motivation? | |
Is it fair to the child? | |
Do I have enough resources to be a good single parent? | |
Transitioning to motherhood | |
Can I Afford It? | p. 22 |
Spending habits | |
Childcare costs and tips | |
Big-ticket expenses | |
Long-term issues | |
The cost of conception | |
Grieving the Childhood Dream | p. 43 |
Living with grief | |
Choosing to wait | |
Getting to the roots | |
When you keep walking | |
Will My Community Accept Us? | p. 60 |
"You are selfish" | |
Why the opposition? | |
Why do we care? | |
Helping the child | |
Revisiting the Murphy Brown vs. Quayle debate | |
Is it Fair to the Child? | p. 83 |
The Impact of a Single-Parent Home | p. 85 |
What the research says | |
Portrait of a successful single parent | |
How Choice Moms succeed | |
Moral parenting | |
Growing Up without a Father | p. 115 |
The skepticism | |
Two loving parents | |
Balance | |
Gender identification | |
Self-control | |
Kids' perceptions of fathers | |
Choosing the Method | p. 139 |
Known Donor: Pros and Cons | p. 141 |
What can go wrong | |
What can go right: child's identity and medical history | |
Questions to ask and understand | |
Reflections on being a known donor | |
Using Donor Insemination | p. 171 |
Alphabet soup | |
The ethics | |
Open-identity option | |
Who are the donors? | |
Choosing a donor | |
The process | |
Choosing Adoption | p. 201 |
Thinking about age, race, special needs, contact with birth family | |
Expense | |
Finding assistance | |
The home study | |
Transracial adoption | |
Day-to-Day Parenting | p. 229 |
Dealing with the Stress | p. 231 |
How to reduce stress | |
How do we handle it alone? | |
The difference a partner makes | |
Tips for the caregiver's soul | |
Having two | |
Answering the Daddy Question | p. 259 |
Answering what kids really want to know | |
Basic dos and don'ts | |
Age-appropriate expert advice | |
When kids meet donor dads | |
Confronting Identity Issues | p. 282 |
Why it matters to the kids | |
Typical ages and stages | |
The donor-conceived child | |
The adopted child | |
The transracial family | |
How to Raise a Well-Balanced Child | p. 313 |
Meet the experts | |
The basics | |
Understanding the child | |
Community | |
Mutual respect | |
Authoritative parenting | |
The four-point game plan | |
Raising a boy | |
The Legacy of Choice | p. 337 |
Of Politics and Policy | p. 339 |
Who gets to try? | |
"I was turned away five times" | |
Who can be a donor? | |
Taking it to court | |
Rights around the world | |
Changes in adoption | |
Where gays and lesbians need not apply | |
Insurance | |
How marriage policy pertains | |
How Are the Kids Turning Out? | p. 365 |
Social development | |
Effect of stigma | |
Will Choice Kids marry? | |
The mothers' perspectives | |
Strengths and weaknesses | |
Conversations with Kyla, Greg, Cambra, Laurabeth, Ryan, Grace, Zac | |
Conclusion: Connecting the Dots | p. 394 |
Notes | p. 405 |
Resources | p. 420 |
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