The Five Ways We Grieve Finding Your Personal Path to Healing after the Loss of a Loved One

by BERGER, SUSAN A.

• ISBN13: 9781590308998
• ISBN10: 1590308999
• Edition: Reprint
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2011-03-08
• Publisher: Trumpeter

Summary

In this new approach to understanding the impact of grief, Susan A. Berger goes beyond the commonly held theories of stages of grief with a new typology for self-awareness and personal growth.She offers practical advice for healing from a major loss in this presentation of five basic ways, or types, of grieving. These five types describe how different people respond to a major loss. The types are: bull; Nomads, who have not yet resolved their grief and don't often understand how their loss has affected their lives bull; Memorialists, who are committed to preserving the memory of their loved ones by creating concrete memorials and rituals to honor them bull; Normalizers, who are committed to re-creating a sense of family and community bull; Activists, who focus on helping other people who are dealing with the same disease or issues that caused their loved one's death bull; Seekers, who adopt religious, philosophical, or spiritual beliefs to create meaning in their lives Drawing on research results and anecdotes from working with the bereaved over the past ten years, Berger examines how a person's worldview is affected after a major loss. According to her findings, people experience significant changes in their sense of mortality, their values and priorities, their perception of and orientation toward time, and the manner in which they "fit" in society. The five types of grieving, she finds, reflect the choices people make in their efforts to adapt to dramatic life changes. By identifying with one of the types, readers who have suffered a recent lossor whose lives have been shaped by an early lossfind ways of understanding the impact of the loss and of living more fully.

Author Biography

Susan A. Berger, EDD, LICSW, counsels people who are confronting significant loss and other life changes. She also trains professionals in using her unique approach to helping the bereaved. She has twenty-five years' experience in the health and mental health fields as a researcher, practitioner, administrator, and consultant in both Massachusetts and Washington, D.C. She has also served as a hospice volunteer.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments	p. ix
Preface	p. xiii
Introduction	p. xvii
Loss Changes You Forever	p. 1
The Nomad	p. 25
The Memorialist	p. 56
The Normalizer	p. 83
The Activist	p. 112
The Seeker	p. 135
Transforming Your Grief: Finding Your Personal Path to Healing	p. 161
Hope for the Future	p. 172
Conclusion: Support for Your Healing	p. 183
About the Interviews	p. 187
Resources for Self-Help	p. 191
Notes	p. 201
Bibliography	p. 211
Index	p. 213
About the Author	p. 213
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