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Old Friend from Far Away : The Practice of Writing Memoir

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    9781416535034

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    1416535039

  • Format: Paperback
  • Copyright: 3/10/2009
  • Publisher: Atria Books

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Summary

Twenty years ago Natalie Goldberg's classic,Writing Down the Bones, broke new ground in its approach to writing as a practice. Now,Old Friend from Far Away-- her first book sinceWriting Down the Bonesto focus solely on writing -- reaffirms Goldberg's status as a foremost teacher of writing, and completely transforms the practice of writing memoir.To write memoir, we must first know how to remember. Through timed, associative, and meditative exercises,Old Friend from Far Awayguides you to the attentive state of thought in which you discover and open forgotten doors of memory. At once a beautifully written celebration of the memoir form, an innovative course full of practical teachings, and a deeply affecting meditation on consciousness, love, life, and death,Old Friendwelcomes aspiring writers of all levels and encourages them to find their unique voice to tell their stories.Goldberg's enormously popular workshops have given countless students the ability to heed the call to write.Old Friend from Far Awayrecreates her trademark workshop style with its terse, demanding writing "sprints" that train the hand and mind to quicken their pace and give up conscious control. These exercises divert the eye from the obvious and redirect it to the tactile details we miss, the embarrassments we pass over, and the complications we overlook in the blur of everyday living. Goldberg writes, "No one says it, but writing induces the state of love."Old Friend from Far Awayguides us into that state of love, where heightened attention and a rhythm of focus allow the patterns and details of the past to emerge on the page.Millions of Americans want to write about their lives. WithOld Friendas the road map for getting started and following through, writers and readers will gain a deeper understanding of their own minds, learn to connect with their senses in order to find the detail and truth that give their written words power and authenticity, and unfold the natural structure of the stories they carry within. An absolute joy to read, it is a profound affirmation of the capacity of the written word to remember the past, free us from it, and forever transform theway we think about ourselves and our lives. LikeWriting Down the Bones, it will become an old friend to which readers return again and again.

Table of Contents

Read this Introduction
Note to Reader
Go
I Remember
Test I
No One Has Ever Died...Die
Three...Coffee...Tell Me...Dishes
Jean Rhys
The Four-Letter Word...Ugly...Home
Peach
James Baldwin
Again...What's in Front of You...Outside...End
Section II
Test II...
Funny...Storage
Third
Steve Almond
Nuts
Grade
No Mush...Scratch
Sideways Step
Section III
Test III --
I Remember
Monkey Mind
Wild at Heart
Allen Ginsberg...Plain...Bolt...Bicycle
Great Students
Moment
Zora Neal Hurston
Reading Aloud
Sitting
Hand
Hearing
Chin
Tongue
Just Sitting -- or Do the Neola
Practice Notebook
Walking
Linda Gregg...Happy...Ice Cream
Cook...Potatoes
Verb
Hard and Soft
More Than Ten Minutes
Sprinting...Religion
Jimmy Santiago Baca...Pull...Wild
The Addict
Polite...Repair...Awake...Nothing
Facing It
Boring
Ordinary...Something...Swim...Poor
Lie...Mistake
Weather
Fantasy...Vice...Hand and Wrist...Jump...Care
Section V
Test IV
Cezanne...Apples
Joan Mitchell...Vast Affection...No...Ahead
Sickness
Driving...Window
Paris...Quiet...No Stop
Birthday
Say...Ring...Mind...Time
Close
No Whining
Reading Life...Long...No More
Suicide...Times...Fish...Give Up
Death
Sex -- or Money
Fat...Obese
Smoke
Chang-Rae Lee...Enamored...At the Edge
Fight...The Fourth
Four Words...Perfect...Lucky
Spit...Dresser
Section VI
Test V
Blind...Not Here
Politics
Not You
Half 'n Half
Place...Some Place...Two
No Topic
Title
Implied
Section VII
Test VI
Not Published...Too Long
Portrait
Ad
Last Letter
One
Song
Hattie's...Bar...Different Times
Broken...Everything
Ache
The Topic of Topics
More...Cannot
Radish
Children...Flat Cake
Orient Yourself...Anchor
Inventory of Good-bye...First Meetings
Morning Glory!...Give Up...Haunt...Divorce...Repeat
One Thing
Hot
Nothing...Winter
No Fun
Trip
Defeat
Sound...October Thirty First
Section VIII
Test VII
Good
Big State...The Big Continent...Poignancy...What
Orchard...Mother
Resistance...Knew...Air Waves
Cracked Sentence...Down
Section IX
Test VIII
Series
Fulfilled
Section X
Test IX
Baby Memoir
Caryl Phillips
House
Recipe
Diet
Structure
Vast...Over
Turning Around...Not Take
Well
Guidelines and Suggestions for Writing Memoir
Some Great Memoirs to Read
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Read this Introduction

There is nothing stiff about memoir. It's not a chronological pronouncement of the facts of your life: born in Hoboken, New Jersey; schooled at Elm Creek Elementary; moved to Big Flat, New York, where you attended Holy Mother High School. Memoir doesn't cling to an orderly procession of time and dates, marching down the narrow aisle of your years on this earth. Rather it encompasses the moment you stopped, turned your car around, and went swimming in a deep pool by the side of the road. You threw off your gray suit, a swimming trunk in the backseat, a bridge you dived off. You knew you had an appointment in the next town, but the water was so clear. When would you be passing by this river again? The sky, the clouds, the reeds by the roadside mattered. You remembered bologna sandwiches made on white bread; you started to whistle old tunes. How did life get so confusing? Last week your seventeen-year-old told you he was gay and you suspect your wife is having an affair. You never liked selling industrial-sized belts to tractor companies anyway. Didn't you once dream of being a librarian or a dessert cook? Maybe it was a landscaper, a firefighter?

Memoir gives you the ability to plop down like the puddle that forms and spreads from the shattering of a glass of milk on the kitchen floor. You watch how the broken glass gleams from the electric light overhead. The form of memoir has leisure enough to examine all this.

Memoir is not a declaration of the American success story, one undeviating road, the conquering of one mountaintop after another. The puddle began in downfall. The milk didn't get to the mouth. Whatever your life, it is urging you to record it -- to embrace the crumbs with the cake. It's why so many of us want to write memoir. We know the particulars, but what really went on? We want the emotional truths under the surface that drove our life.

In the past, memoir was the country of old people, a looking back, a reminiscence. But now people are disclosing their lives in their twenties, writing their first memoir in their thirties and their second in their forties. This revolution in personal narrative that has unrolled across the American landscape in the last two and a half decades is the expression of a uniquely American energy: a desire to understand in the heat of living, while life is fresh, and not wait till old age -- it may be too late. We are hungry -- and impatient now.

But what if you are already sixty, seventy years old, eighty, ninety? Let the thunder roll. You've got something to say. You are alive and you don't know for how long. (None of us really knows for how long.) No matter your age there is a sense of urgency, to make life immediate and relevant.

Think of the word: memoir. It comes from the French m?moire. It is the study of memory, structured on the meandering way we remember. Essentially it is an examination of the zigzag nature of how our mind works. The thought of Cheerios ricochets back to a broken fence in our backyard one Nebraska spring, then hops over to the first time we stood before a mountain and understood kindness. A smell, a taste -- and a whole world flares up.

How close can we get? All those questions, sometimes murky and uncomfortable: who was that person that was your mother? Why did you play basketball when you longed to play football? Your head wanted to explode until you first snorted cocaine behind the chain-link fence near the gas station. Then things got quiet and peaceful, but what was that black dog still at your throat?

We are a dynamic country, fast-paced, ever onward. Can we make sense of love and ambition, pain and longing? In the center of our speed, in the core of our forward movement, we are often confused and lonely. That's why we have turned so full- heartedly to the memoir form. We have an intuition that it can save us. Writing is the act of reaching across the abyss of isolation to share and reflect. It's not a diet to become skinny, but a relaxation into the fat of our lives. Often without realizing it, we are on a quest, a search for meaning. What does our time on this earth add up to?

The title Old Friend from Far Away comes from the Analects by Confucius. We reach back in time to another country. Isn't that what memory is?

'To have an old friend visit

...from far away --

...what a delight!'

So let's pick up the pen, and kick some ass. Write down who you were, who you are, and what you remember.Copyright © 2007 by Natalie Goldberg


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