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Peter J. Favaro, Ph.D., is a psychologist and executive director of Smart Parenting: The Family Center, which provides court services to high-conflict individuals and families. He has handled more than six thousand custody cases in the state of New York.
.Preface | p. ix |
Understanding Your Conflict | |
Smart Parenting During and After Divorce | p. 3 |
The Common Threads of Conflict | p. 5 |
Assessing Your Level of Conflict | p. 11 |
The Art of Avoiding War: How to De-Escalate Conflict | p. 14 |
Seek Neutral Input to Solve Problems | p. 19 |
How to Negotiate with a Reasonable Co-Parent | p. 21 |
How to Communicate with a Reasonable Co-Parent | p. 25 |
How to Negotiate with a Jerk | p. 30 |
How to Communicate with a Jerk | p. 34 |
How to Keep Your Cool: Anger Management | p. 40 |
Revenge: A Dish Best Not Served at All | p. 46 |
Navigating the Court System | |
Do I Really Need to Be in Court? | p. 51 |
Preparing to Interact with Court-Appointed Professionals | p. 54 |
Appearing Before a Judge | p. 62 |
The Pitfalls of Taking Matters into Your Own Hands | p. 68 |
How to Choose a Lawyer | p. 71 |
How to Get Along with a Lawyer | p. 79 |
How to Tell Whether Your Lawyer Is Doing a Good Job for You | p. 82 |
When You Want to Fire Your Lawyer | p. 84 |
When You Want to Complain About Your Lawyer | p. 86 |
Co-Parenting Successfully | |
Telling Children About Divorce | p. 91 |
Changing Notions of Custody in Society | p. 94 |
Co-Parenting Responsibilities of the Custodial Parent | p. 97 |
Co-Parenting Responsibilities of the Visiting Parent | p. 100 |
Moving and Relocating | p. 104 |
Co-Parenting in Medical Emergencies | p. 107 |
Telephone Contact Issues | p. 108 |
The Importance of Sharing Information | p. 112 |
Self-Defeating Behavior: Overprotectiveness and Rigidity | p. 114 |
Divorced Parenting for Ages and Stages | |
Special Needs of Infants | p. 119 |
Special Needs of Toddlers and Preschoolers | p. 122 |
Special Needs of Five- to Eight-Year-Olds | p. 125 |
Special Needs of Eight- to Twelve-Year-Olds | p. 128 |
Special Needs of Teens | p. 131 |
Making Visitation Schedules Work | |
Understanding Custody and Visitation in Relation to Parenting Influence and Time | p. 137 |
How to Set Up a Temporary Visitation Schedule | p. 141 |
How to Set Up a Long-Term Visitation Schedule | p. 144 |
How to Figure Out Holiday Visitation | p. 151 |
When to Seek Supervised Visitation | p. 155 |
Dealing with Common Problems | |
When Parents Have Different Rules | p. 161 |
Discipline Problems Related to Divorce | p. 164 |
Preventing Common Personal and Social Problems Related to Divorce | p. 167 |
Preventing Academic Problems Related to Divorce | p. 170 |
Visitation Tantrums | p. 174 |
Special Concerns and Crisis Situations | |
When Your Co-Parent Abuses Drugs or Alcohol | p. 183 |
Protecting Yourself and Your Children Against Violence in the Family | p. 187 |
What to Do When the Other Parent Speaks Negatively About You to Your Child | p. 192 |
What to Do When Your Child Is Acting Out Sexually During or After a Visit | p. 199 |
What to Do When Your Child Tells You He or She Was Hit at the Co-Parent's House | p. 203 |
Moving On | |
Introducing Your Child to Your New Partner | p. 209 |
Stepparenting | p. 215 |
Your New Beginning | p. 218 |
Resources | p. 219 |
Index | p. 223 |
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