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Ties That Bind : Familial Homophobia and Its Consequences



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Although acceptance of difference is on the rise in America, it's the rare gay or lesbian person who has not been demeaned because of his or her sexual orientation, and this experience usually starts at home, among family members. Whether they are excluded from family love and approval, expected to accept second-class status for life, ignored by mainstream arts and entertainment, or abandoned when intervention would make all the difference, gay people are routinely subjected to forms of psychological and physical abuse unknown to many straight Americans. "Familial homophobia," as prizewinning writer and professor Sarah Schulman calls it, is a phenomenon that until now has not had a name but that is very much a part of life for the LGBT community. In the same way that Susan Brownmiller'sAgainst Our Willtransformed our understanding of rape by moving the stigma from the victim to the perpetrator, Schulman'sTies That Bindcalls on us to recognize familial homophobia. She invites us to understand it not as a personal problem but a widespread cultural crisis. She challenges us to take up our responsibilities to intervene without violating families, community, and the state. With devastating examples, Schulman clarifies how abusive treatment of homosexuals at home enables abusive treatment of homosexuals in other relationships as well as in society at large. Ambitious, original, and deeply important, Schulman's book draws on her own experiences, her research, and her activism to probe this complex issuestill very much with us at the start of the twenty-first centuryand to articulate a vision for a more accepting world.

Author Biography

Sarah Schulman is the author of nine novels, four nonfiction books, and numerous plays. A recipient of a Guggenheim and a Fulbright, Schulman is a professor of English at the City University of New York, College of Staten Island, and a fellow at the New York Institute for the Humanities at New York University.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgmentsp. xiii
Introduction: Familial Homophobia, an Experience in Search of Recognitionp. 1
"The Oppressed Will Always Believe the Worst About Themselves"p. 19
Cultural Crisis, NOT Personal Problemp. 29
Homophobia as a Pleasure Systemp. 43
The Failure of Therapeutic Solutionsp. 61
Doing to Lovers as Other Have Done to Us/Herp. 81
Third Party Intervention: The Human Obligationp. 95
Withholding Creates Tension, Acknowledgment Creates Relief (And This Is Why We Are Talking About Gay Marriage)p. 117
To Be Realp. 133
Conclusion: Facing Challenging Ideasp. 165
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