Everybody Wins : The Chapman Guide to Solving Conflicts Without Arguing

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  • Copyright: 2007-01-01
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Every couple has disagreements. All too often, though, when we engage in arguments, our goal is not to resolve the conflict at hand, but rather, to win the fight. Unfortunately, when you win an argument, your spouse is the loser, and nobody wants to be or live with a loser. When you resolve a conflict, your spouse becomes your friend. Good marriages are based on friendship, not on winning arguments. Now, Gary Chapman provides couples with a simple blueprint for achieving win-win solutions to everyday conflicts and disagreements. By learning how to listen empathetically, respecting each other's ideas and feelings, and understanding why particular issues are so important to their spouse, couples can find solutions that result not only in resolving the conflict at hand, but also leave both partners feeling loved, listened to, and appreciated.

Author Biography

Gary D. Chapmam is the director of Marriage and Family Life Consultants, Inc.; an internationally known speakers; and the host of A Growing Marriage, a syndicated radio program heard on more than 100 stations across North America

Table of Contents

Introductionp. vii
What's So Bad about Arguing?p. 1
Why Is It So Important to Resolve Conflicts?p. 11
It's All about Attitudep. 23
Conflict Resolution Requires Listeningp. 39
Listening Leads to Understandingp. 57
Understanding Leads to Resolutionp. 69
Resolution Leads to Harmonyp. 87
Epiloguep. 99
Some Thoughts Worth Rememberingp. 101
A Resolution by Which Everybody Winsp. 105
Notesp. 107
About the Authorp. 109
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