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Kate Cohen-Posey is Director of Psychiatric & Psychological Services in Lakeland, Florida. She is the author of Empowering Dialogues Within: A Workbook for Helping Professionals and Their Clients, Brief Therapy Client Handouts (both published by Wiley) and How to Handle Bullies, Teasers, and Other Meanies. A dynamic presenter, she has a passion for helping laypeople and professionals discover grace in life's grueling moments.
Case Stories | p. xi |
Introduction | p. xiii |
Acknowledgments | p. xxi |
Difficult People and the Art of Aikido | p. 1 |
Martial Arts-East Does Not Meet West | p. 2 |
Verbal Arts | p. 3 |
Instinctual Reactions | p. 4 |
Turning the Spotlight | p. 5 |
Response versus Reaction | p. 6 |
Acting as If-The Art of Confirming | p. 9 |
What and Why of Confirming | p. 10 |
Art of Agreement | p. 11 |
Speak It as You Want It | p. 13 |
Counting on Compliments | p. 16 |
Drama Is Worth a Thousand Words | p. 22 |
Reverse Resistance with Psychology | p. 24 |
Exercise | p. 25 |
All-Purpose Confirmations | p. 27 |
Asking Questions-The Art of Inquiry | p. 31 |
Dialogues | p. 32 |
Pseudoquestions | p. 34 |
Asking Questions to Avoid Assumptions | p. 35 |
Asking Hidden Questions to Promote Contemplation | p. 37 |
Spotlight Effect | p. 38 |
Asking Questions to Prevent Prying | p. 39 |
Asking Questions to Evoke Inquiry | p. 41 |
Asking Questions that Give People a False Choice | p. 44 |
Asking Questions that Predict Success | p. 46 |
Exercise | p. 47 |
All-Purpose Questions | p. 49 |
Active Listening-The Art of Understanding | p. 51 |
How Listening Became Active | p. 52 |
Therapeutic Triangles-Reflect Harsh Words Away from Targets | p. 58 |
Narrating Behavior and Diction | p. 59 |
Naming the Game | p. 61 |
Filial Therapy Narrations | p. 62 |
Refinement of Active Listening | p. 64 |
Active Listening Add-Ons | p. 65 |
Active Listening for Empowerment | p. 67 |
Exercise | p. 71 |
Advantages of Active Listening | p. 73 |
Hypnosis and Humor-The Art of Evoking | p. 75 |
Modern Hypnotherapy | p. 76 |
Hypnotic Basics in the Verbal Arts | p. 78 |
Advanced Hypnotic Patterns | p. 79 |
Exercise | p. 95 |
Comedy Connection | p. 97 |
Taking a Stand by Opposing | p. 101 |
"I" Position | p. 102 |
Taking a Stand Effortlessly | p. 103 |
Disagreeing Effortlessly | p. 108 |
Handling a Backlash | p. 109 |
Buber Takes a Stand | p. 111 |
Teaching Positive Speaking to Clients | p. 115 |
Positive Speaking Training Steps | p. 115 |
Aikido Cross Training (Step 5) | p. 117 |
Positive Speaking for Interpersonal Issues | p. 118 |
Interference from Inner Bullies | p. 120 |
Limits of Positive Speaking | p. 122 |
Goals of Positive Speaking | p. 124 |
Maintaining Balance with High-Wire Families | p. 125 |
Workshops on Positive Speaking | p. 129 |
Bonus: For Practice or Presentations | p. 130 |
Possible Workshop Titles | p. 130 |
Program Description | p. 131 |
Learning Objectives | p. 132 |
Materials | p. 133 |
Scripted Program Outline | p. 133 |
Quiz | p. 143 |
Feedback Form | p. 148 |
Handout | p. 149 |
Questionnaire | p. 150 |
Cruel Comments Worksheet | p. 150 |
Quiz Answers | p. 155 |
Verbal Arts Terms | p. 159 |
All-Purpose One-Liners | p. 165 |
Psychotherapy Approaches Referenced in the Text | p. 167 |
References | p. 171 |
About the Author | p. 173 |
Index | p. 175 |
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