Acknowledgements | p. v |
Introduction | p. 1 |
The only-child identity | p. 4 |
Who is an only child? | p. 5 |
About Being an only Child | |
Being Everything | p. 13 |
All the responsibility | p. 15 |
All the expectations | p. 26 |
All the blame | p. 40 |
All the attention | p. 46 |
All the goodies | p. 55 |
Rough and Tumble | p. 60 |
The need for space | p. 63 |
Problems with sharing | p. 67 |
Keeping secrets | p. 69 |
Teasing, gullibility and illusions | p. 71 |
Conflict and resolution | p. 72 |
Self-image | p. 77 |
Rather late in the day | p. 79 |
Through parents' eyes only | p. 81 |
Difficulties in evaluating | p. 85 |
You mean I'm not the centre of the world? | p. 88 |
Teenage rebellion | p. 91 |
Transformations | p. 95 |
Social Maturity | p. 100 |
The process | p. 102 |
The pattern | p. 109 |
Always Alone | p. 124 |
When do only children feel alone? | p. 126 |
Coping as a child | p. 136 |
Coping as an adult | p. 143 |
The Triangle: A Summary | p. 152 |
Family interactions | p. 153 |
Where is the power? | p. 155 |
'Two's company, but three's a crowd | p. 155 |
The Survival Guide | |
Relationships, and How to Survive Them | p. 162 |
The Only Child and Friends | p. 178 |
The rules of engagement | p. 178 |
Substitute friends | p. 180 |
Making friends at school | p. 182 |
A certain isolation | p. 184 |
Stratagems and tactics | p. 187 |
Achieving a balance | p. 188 |
The Only Child at Work | p. 194 |
The high achiever | p. 195 |
Criticism and competition | p. 196 |
Having to be everything | p. 198 |
Office politics | p. 202 |
Fitting into the group | p. 203 |
The Only Child as Carer | p. 208 |
Preparation | p. 211 |
Communication | p. 214 |
Negotiation | p. 216 |
Expectation | p. 217 |
Celebrations | p. 220 |
A Ten-point Survival Plan | p. 228 |
For Partners and New Parents | |
Partners | p. 235 |
Their own space | p. 239 |
Sharing time | p. 240 |
Fear of closeness | p. 243 |
Emotional immaturity | p. 246 |
Self, self, self | p. 249 |
Children? | p. 250 |
Anger | p. 252 |
An overdeveloped sense of responsibility | p. 253 |
Family life | p. 254 |
Hints for New Parents of an Only Child | p. 257 |
Cherish the childhood | p. 260 |
Compensate, but not too much | p. 262 |
Don't make an ally of your child | p. 268 |
They can't be everything | p. 269 |
Conclusion | p. 272 |
Index | p. 275 |
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