Resurrecting Sex

by Schnarch, David Morris

• ISBN13: 9780060931780
• ISBN10: 0060931787
• Edition: Reprint
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2009-12-02
• Publisher: HarperCollins Publications

Summary

In this remarkable new book, Dr. David Schnarch, world-renowned sex and marital therapist and author of Passionate Marriage, offers a groundbreaking approach to resolving sexual difficulties and the relationship problems they cause. By showing couples how they can turn their worst sex and relationship disasters into personal growth and spiritual connection, Dr. Schnarch offers couples the best sex of their lives. In addition to taking an unflinchingly honest, realistic, and erotic approach to sex, Dr. Schnarch reveals the complicated emotional interactions hidden within couples' most private moments. Resurrecting Sex speaks of compassion, partnership, generosity, and integrity in adult sexual relationships, offering hope to millions of people -- golden-anniversary marriages, newly formed couples, and singles alike -- who are struggling with sexual difficulties. Uplifting, provocative, and heartfelt, the book is organized into four sections: A crash course in sex Explanation of how sexual relationships really work Medical options and bionic solutions Vignettes of couples changing their sexual relationships Resurrecting Sex addresses all major sexual issues, including male erection problems such as rapid orgasm and delayed orgasm; women's problems with arousal and lubrication, difficulty reaching orgasm, and low desire; full coverage of Viagra (for both men and women); and other sex-enhancing drugs and medical options. Rather than dwelling on sexual techniques, this sympathetic book shows how to cure the rejection, hostility, and emotional alienation that often accompany sexual problems. Its unique method helps couples develop the love, affection, and commitment that prevent divorce and strengthen families. Generous of spirit, enlightened, and insightful, Resurrecting Sex is destined to make the world a better place to fall in love.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments	xiii
Introduction	1	(12)
Part I: A Crash Course in Sex
A Second Chance at Sex	13	(17)
How Sex Works	30	(15)
What Is Happening When You Can't Get Aroused?	45	(17)
Do You Have Difficulty with Orgasms?	62	(17)
Twenty-two Ways to Resurrect Sex	79	(22)
Part II: How Sexual Relationships Work
Changing Is Often Difficult---and Worth It	101	(26)
Hold On to Yourself!	127	(28)
Part III: Medical Options
Sex Devices and Surgical Procedures	155	(15)
Sex Drugs: Better Loving Through Chemistry?	170	(14)
Can Medical Options Improve Your Marriage?	184	(17)
Part IV: Couples in Search of Solutions
Solutions for Arousal Disorders	201	(25)
So You Want to Have an Orgasm	226	(18)
Synchronize Your Pelvis and Your Inner Mental World	244	(22)
What Will It Take to Change Things?	266	(25)
Appendixes
A. Referral Information and Resources	283	(3)
B. Medical Conditions and Diseases Creating Sexual Problems	286	(1)
C. Drugs Associated with Sexual Dysfunctions	287	(1)
D. Drug and Medication Sexual Side Effects	288	(1)
E. Side Effects of Drugs That Indirectly Diminish Sex	289	(1)
F. Organic Conditions Causing Diminished Desire	290	(1)
Notes	291	(14)
Index	305