The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy How to Have Incredible Sex with Role Play, Sex Games, Erotic Massage, BDSM and More

by Blue, Violet; Queen, Carol

• ISBN13: 9781627780414
• ISBN10: 1627780416
• Edition: Reprint
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2014-06-17
• Publisher: Cleis Press

Summary

Join the legions of couples and singles who are making their hottest sexual fantasies come true. Whether you're looking for an endless supply of fantasy ideas or expert advice for a playful, imaginative sex life that turns you both on, this information-packed book has everything you need to know. The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy helps readers learn their lover's secret fantasies; engage in hot, dramatic role-play without feeling silly; have a threesome-without jealousy; explore sex parties and swinging; have sex in public; create thrilling S&M scenarios; make their own porn and erotic photos; and strip, give lap dances, and talk dirty. Also included are comprehensive lists of the most popular fantasies and fetishes complete with suggestions for props, toys, and costumes (and where to buy them), racy sex games for lovers, expert help for deciding just how far to take your fantasies, and hot new stories by best-selling erotica author Alison Tyler.

• Learn your lover's secret fantasies
• Role-play: hot, dramatic sex without feeling silly
• Comprehensive lists of the most popular fantasies and fetishes-complete with suggestions for props, toys, and costumes (and where to buy them)
• Expert help for deciding just how far to take your fantasies

Author Biography

Violet Blue is the bestselling author of numerous sex guides and a wildly popular erotica editor. She has appeared in dozens of publications and on many radio and TV programs, including Forbes, O: The Oprah Magazine, and The Wall Street Journal. A trained sex educator who lectures students at San Francisco State University and U.C. Berkeley, she lives in San Francisco.

Table of Contents

Introduction: The Mirror of Desire

Chapter 1: Choose Your Own Adventure
Fantasy and Fetish
Popular Fantasy Themes
When Fantasies Make You Feel Bad
Fantasy Research
The Perfect Match

Chapter 2: Fantasies for One
Masturbation: Just Do It
Hot Masturbation Sessions: Fantasies, Sex Toys, and More
What Not to Stick in Your Butt
Change Habits and Learn New Tricks
A Tool for Men: The Squeeze Technique
A Tool for Women: Your Vibrator
The Golden Rules of Anal Masturbation
Three in One

Chapter 3: Fantasies for Two
Building a Fantasy Scenario
In Your Head, or in Reality?
How to Ask for a Spanking
Get a Little Closer
Getting to know your Lover's Fantasies
Sexy Surprises
The Sex Buffet
Talking to Your Partner
When Your Lover is Reluctant
Ready to Play?
Not Tonight

Chapter 4: Role Play
Erotic Adult Theatre for Two
Waiting in the Wings
Erotic Acting
Plan It, Janet
Classic Roles
Where to Shop
Gender Play
Age Play

Chapter 5: Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes
Three, Four, and More
Jealousy
Adding Someone New
First Impressions
Get Together, and Get Off
Sex Positions
Hooking Up: Cruising and Advertising
California Dreaming

Chapter 6: Weaving a Spell: Striptease, Hot Talk, and Erotic Massage
Confidence
Preparations
How To Strip
Lap Dance 101
The Art of Dirty Talk
Giving an Erotic Massage

Chapter 7: Strip Clubs, Phone Sex, and Call Girls- for Two
Strip Clubs and Lap Dances
How Will They Treat Me at the Strip Club?
Peep Booths
Arcades Don't Have Video Games
Phone Sex
Call Girls and Prostitutes

Chapter 8: Public Sex
What's on the Menu
Where to Do It
Role-Playing in Public
Swinging
Alternative Sex Parties
The View from Paris

Chapter 9: Fetishes
A Fetishist Looks Just Like You
How to Have Sex with a Fetishist
Classic Fetishes
Networking with Other Fetishists and Their Partners
Other People's Panties

Chapter 10: Erotic Dominance and Submission: S/M Fantasies
Sweet Submission
A Sampling of Submissive Roles
When Being in Charge Turns on You
A Sampling of Dominant Roles
Captivity and Erotic Torment
Always Have a Safe Word
Teasing your Captive
Pleasurable Pain and Punishment
Public S/M Clubs
Organizations and Private Clubs
Seeing a Professional Dominatrix

Chapter 11: Sex Games
Ten Erotic Escapades
Messy Fun
Aphrodisiac Seductions
So, You Want to Be in Pictures?
Cybersex
Show-and-Tell

Chapter 12: Safer Sex
The Gear
Safer Sex Chart

Chapter 13: Resources
Resources for Sex Toys, Books, and Videos: U.S., Canada, International

Chapter 14: References

About the Author