Darlene Lancer, MFT, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, having worked with individuals and couples for 25 years. She's a consultant, author, and speaker on relationships and codependency. Find her blog and more at darlenelancer.com and whatiscodependency.com.
Introduction 1
Part I: What is Codependency and Who is Codependent? 7
Chapter 1: When Relationships Hurt 9
Chapter 2: A New Definition of Codependency 27
Chapter 3: Characteristics of Codependents 39
Chapter 4: So, Are You Codependent? 69
Part II: Breaking the Cycle of Codependency: Beginning Recovery 77
Chapter 5: Crossing De-Nile to Recovery 79
Chapter 6: The Process of Recovery 89
Chapter 7: How Did You Become Codependent? 97
Chapter 8: Taking Stock of Who You Are 119
Chapter 9: Nonattachment and Acceptance 133
Chapter 10: Learning to Value Yourself 155
Part III: The Skills: Taking Action 169
Chapter 11: Finding Your Voice 171
Chapter 12: Recovery and Your Family, Friends, and Lovers 191
Chapter 13: Going for the Gold – Healing Your Past 203
Chapter 14: Healing Pleasures 221
Chapter 15: Coping with Relapse 237
Part IV: Standing on Your Own: Leaving Codependency Behind 249
Chapter 16: Relationships that Work 251
Chapter 17: Empowering You 269
Chapter 18: Where to Get Help 285
Part V: The Part of Tens 293
Chapter 19: Ten Ways to Love Yourself 295
Chapter 20: Ten Daily Reminders 301
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