Conquer Me

by Cunningham, Kacie

• ISBN13: 9781890159764
• ISBN10: 189015976X
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2010-04-01
• Publisher: Greenery Pr

Summary

Submissive women have needs just like anybody else. But how can a woman get her needs met when she's relinquished her power to her dominant partner? With warmth, wisdom and a down-to-earth approach, experienced submissive Kacie Cunningham analyzes the realities of the dominant-submissive lifestyle and suggests ways in which both partners can experience the greatest possible growth and pleasure. At the heart of the book is an emotion Kacie has dubbed "Conquer Me" -- which she defines as "the submissive's internal demand for a show of strength." Without a clear understanding of "conquer me," both submissive and dominant may find themselves at odds -- either fighting unhappily, or watching the passion ebb from their relationship. This book explains this unique need and how to get it met -- essential knowledge for any submissive or couple who wants to get the most out of their D/s lifestyle.

Author Biography

Kacie Cunningham had her first real experience with kink when she was 18 years old, and has spent the last decade searching out better and safer ways of doing it. At the time of publication, she has been with her Master for four years, and they live in Indianapolis, with their two dogs and two fish. She spends much of her time writing loving, and laughing.

Table of Contents

Foreword	p. xi
Introduction	p. xvii
Terms of Endearment	p. 1
And This One Time, at Pancake Camp	p. 4
Nature or Nurture: The Great Debate	p. 9
Power to Choose	p. 13
Opposite but Equal - The Paradox of D/S	p. 16
Bare Necessities	p. 20
First Intermission	p. 24
Conquer Me	p. 25
Dark Secrets and Dirty Sheets	p. 30
Ball-gags, Earplugs and Other Communication Barriers	p. 33
ôTomorrowö	p. 41
Dousing the Flames	p. 44
Catechism and Chain	p. 51
Second Intermission	p. 56
The Perfect Master (And Other Mythical Creatures)	p. 57
Active Dominance - Lead from the Front	p. 62
Active Submission - On Your Own Two Knees	p. 67
Submission Is a Gift - All Tied Up With String	p. 72
Lovekink Bank and Trust	p. 76
And Now, It's Time for a Parable	p. 82
Crystal Balls, Soap Bubbles and Acceptance	p. 87
This Is a Job For Super-Subbie!	p. 93
Pride, Fear and Taboos	p. 97
Topping from the Bottom or Is It?	p. 102
Up, Up and Away!	p. 108
Third Intermission	p. 114
The Myth about Surrender	p. 116
You Show Me Yours, I'll Show You Mine: Negotiating Your Kink	p. 123
Punishment and Discipline - Spare the Rod, Spoil the Sub	p. 131
Abuse	p. 137
24/7 - Fantasy vs. Reality	p. 146
The Vanilla Masquerade	p. 150
Getting Back On Track	p. 154
Last Intermission	p. 161
Dear Reader	p. 162
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