Get the Guy

by Hussey, Matthew; Hussey, Stephen (CON)

• ISBN13: 9780062241740
• ISBN10: 0062241745
• Format: Hardcover
• Copyright: 2013-04-09
• Publisher: Harperwave

Summary

As a consultant to Fortune 500 companies, Matthew Hussey built a successful business coaching high-powered executives one-on-one, offering effective tools for building confidence and charisma in the workplace. But at the end of the day, most of Matthew's male clients pressed him for the same advice: How to apply his winning strategies not to get the job, but to get the girl. Matthew soon found a new career in helping men with their love lives. For two years this became a major focus of his work, as he coached more than 10,000 men. But as his reputation grew, Matthew found himself approached by increasing numbers of women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance. Get the Guyis his response to this overwhelming demand. In it, he shows women step-by-step how to not only get the guy, but also where to find him and perhaps most importantly, how to keep him. Matthew's warm, conversational advice isn't structured by rigid rules, nor does it suggest that women must fundamentally change themselves to find love. Instead, drawing on his experiences working with thousands of single men, he reveals insights into the male mind-including their most guarded secrets, problems, and desires-to give women a cheat sheet to the male psyche. In Get the Guy, readers will learn: Why playing hard to get is a lose-lose game. Men don't want to endlessly chase a woman who is impossible to attain; they want to win over a woman who is high value and worth the challenge. How to approach a man risk-free by taking advantage of the male brain's hardwired chivalry and asking for a simple favor. How to create non-negotiable standards for the way they want to be treated-and utilize a 3-step plan for determining if a man can live up to them. Discover why men pale in the face of long-term commitment, and how women may unknowingly sabotage themselves from getting what they want. Throughout the book, Matthew will offer his advice on the common relationship problems he hears about every day in his work, outlining concrete strategies women can use to conquer them and using examples from both his male and female clients. It's time for women to strip away all of the conflicting strategies and gimmicks they've been given and focus on what's real and what works- Matthew Hussey's firsthand, straight-shooting advice is the handbook for getting the guy that every woman has been waiting for.