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Hello | p. xv |
Body: Looking and Feeling Your Best | p. 1 |
Do Guys Worry About Their Bodies? | p. 2 |
Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Breasts | p. 3 |
Is Your Period a Question Mark? | p. 8 |
The Right Height | p. 16 |
Excited About Exercise | p. 17 |
Healthy Eating | p. 19 |
Don't Window-Shop at the Bakery and Forty-nine Other Dos and Don'ts | p. 21 |
Eating Disorders: Dying to Be Thin | p. 26 |
Body Sweat, Body Smells | p. 31 |
Skin Care (Sun Goddesses, Beware!) | p. 32 |
A Nose Is a Nose Is a Nose and All About Ears | p. 36 |
Eye Deal | p. 38 |
Ignore Your Teeth and They'll Go Away | p. 39 |
Hair Care | p. 41 |
Nice Nails | p. 44 |
Makeup and Clothes | p. 45 |
Even Beautiful Girls Get the Blues | p. 47 |
Sleep Tight (Waking Up Is Hard to Do) | p. 48 |
Mono and Your Health | p. 49 |
Physical Disabilities | p. 51 |
Speaking of Body Language | p. 53 |
Dear Carol... | p. 54 |
Friendship: You Don't Like Everybody: Why Should Everybody Like You? | p. 66 |
Girlfriends Last Longer Than Boyfriends | p. 67 |
Ten Ways to Make Friends | p. 68 |
The Pursuit of Popularity | p. 75 |
Your Friends Don't All Have to Like Each Other | p. 77 |
Can a Guy Be a Friend? | p. 78 |
Fights and Friends | p. 79 |
Staying Friends | p. 81 |
Telephone Tactics | p. 82 |
Being a Good Guest | p. 86 |
When Friendships Change | p. 88 |
Ten Ways to Lose Friends | p. 90 |
Be Your Own Friend | p. 91 |
Dear Carol... | p. 94 |
Love: Falling In, Falling Out | p. 105 |
Getting Started | p. 106 |
Sending Out Signals | p. 108 |
On Your Mark, Get Set--Relax! | p. 111 |
Icebreakers: Twenty-three Ways to Launch a Conversation | p. 112 |
Is Cupid Stupid, or Does He Just Have Poor Aim? | p. 114 |
Should You Go Out with Older and Younger Guys? | p. 116 |
Should You Go Out with Someone from a Different Background? | p. 117 |
Saying No Nicely | p. 118 |
Twenty-eight Things to Do Besides Meet at the Mall | p. 120 |
The Way to a Guy's Heart Just Might Be My Cheesecake | p. 122 |
Nine Awkward Situations and How to Handle Them | p. 123 |
Eleven Surefire Ways to Ruin a Romance | p. 128 |
Breaking Up Without Breaking Down | p. 131 |
Lasting Love | p. 135 |
Love Notes | p. 138 |
Kissing, Etc. | p. 141 |
Dear Carol... | p. 142 |
Sex: What You Should Know Before Saying Yes | p. 154 |
To Do It or Not to Do It: That Is the Question | p. 154 |
Talking to Parents about S-E-X | p. 158 |
Do-It-Yourself Orgasms | p. 160 |
Sex? Who Me? | p. 161 |
True Confessions: My First Time | p. 162 |
It's Easy to Get Pregnant; It's Easy Not To | p. 163 |
Fooling Around | p. 167 |
Birth Control Methods | p. 168 |
What If You Are Pregnant? | p. 179 |
Quick Quiz on Prom Pressures | p. 186 |
Straight, Gay, Bi: Sexual Orientation | p. 189 |
STIs (Sexually Transmitted Infections) | p. 192 |
HIV and AIDS | p. 197 |
No-Fun Nuisances (That Aren't STIs) | p. 200 |
Rape | p. 202 |
Incest | p. 209 |
Dear Carol... | p. 211 |
Family: Making the Best of Your Nest | p. 222 |
Problems with Parents | p. 223 |
Parents with Problems | p. 235 |
You're Crazy If You Need Counseling and Don't Seek It | p. 242 |
Teen Suicide | p. 245 |
Brothers and Sisters | p. 247 |
Stepparents and Stepsiblings: Step by Step | p. 254 |
Relatives in the Parlor and Skeletons in the Closet | p. 257 |
When Loved Ones Die | p. 258 |
Dear Carol... | p. 263 |
Education: Getting Through High School, Getting into College | p. 277 |
Is School Unbeatable or Unbearable? | p. 278 |
Why Should You Learn All That Irrelevant Stuff Anyway? | p. 279 |
Cram Course in Study Habits | p. 280 |
Learning Differences: You Know You're Smart But... | p. 287 |
Teachers: They're Not in It for the Money | p. 289 |
When You Need a Change (School or Summer) | p. 293 |
College: Choosing and Getting Chosen | p. 299 |
Dear Carol... | p. 314 |
Money: The Buck Starts Here | p. 326 |
Be a Better (and Better-Paid) Baby-sitter | p. 327 |
Beyond Baby-sitting (but Before the Big Time) | p. 330 |
All in the Family | p. 332 |
Figuring Out Your Future | p. 334 |
Writing a Resume | p. 338 |
Acing the Interview | p. 341 |
Networking | p. 343 |
Once You're Hired, Don't Get Fired--or Should You Quit? | p. 344 |
When to Be Cheap, When Not to Be Cheap | p. 345 |
Money Miscellany | p. 348 |
Dear Carol... | p. 351 |
Smoking, Drinking, and Drugs: And I Promise Not to Preach | p. 357 |
Tobacco: When It's Good to Be a Quitter | p. 358 |
Thinking About Drinking | p. 366 |
Alcoholism | p. 374 |
Drunk Driving | p. 377 |
Illegal Drugs | p. 379 |
Dear Carol... | p. 389 |
A Quartet of Quizzes: Getting to Know You | p. 398 |
Are You Too Nice? | p. 398 |
How Well Do You Know Your Best Friend? | p. 404 |
Are You and He a Good Match? | p. 408 |
Are You the Jealous Type? | p. 415 |
Goodbye | p. 421 |
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Too fat, too flat, too tall, too small—are you 100 percent happywith your appearance? Hardly anyone is. It's especially hard now.Your body may be growing in all directions, blemishes may freckleyour face, hair may be sprouting here and there, your period maybe a mystery. What is going on inside you anyway? Are you stuckwith your features and figure?
Looks make a difference in first impressions. But so do friendliness,intelligence, thoughtfulness, and a sense of humor. Andwith a little effort, anybody can look attractive.
Since you and your body are together for the long haul, youneed to learn to take care of it. This chapter is about how to beyour most healthy and radiant.
Do Guys Worry About Their Bodies?Before we launch into a discourse about breasts and periods, youmight be wondering if guys ever worry about their bodies. Answer:They do.
Sure, a few wink in the mirror each morning and think they'reGod's Gift to Manhoodand Womankind. But most wrestle withpuberty-related anxiety.
Guys wonder whether they're tall enough, whether their pecsand biceps bulge enough, whether their chest, facial, and pubichair will ever grow. They wish their voices would get deeper andstop croaking. They're tired of having braces and pimples and feelingclumsy and gangly and hungry all the time. They wish theywere more handsome and that their hands wouldn't sweat whenthey ask you to slow dance.
Guys worry extra in gym showers, locker rooms, and bathroomsbecause they figure someone might be checking out theirprivate parts. And someone probably is! Guys don't just worryabout size; some even worry that their organ is crooked!
Here's another male concern: wet dreams. Guys your agesometimes wake up to find they've ejaculated during the night,and they wonder if that's normal. Yes. It's also normal for guys toget erections at odd timesin the morning, in math class, or evenwhen taking a foul shot in basketball.
Many guys feel uneasy about their sexuality. Are they oversexedif they masturbate a lot, undersexed if they don't? If they have anorgasm quickly when they masturbate, does that mean they'll bepremature ejaculators in years to come? If they haven't started dating,or if they've played sex games with other guys or admire theirmale coach, does that mean they're gay? If they have an X-ratedfantasy involving a married woman teacher, does that mean they'retwisted? No, no, no, and no. Guys grow at different sexual speedsand need not be worried by early imaginings or experiences.
In one important way, girls have an advantage over guys in theWorry Department. Most guys don't discuss their growing pains,whereas, luckily for us, most girls do. It's not uncommon for a girlto complain, "I wish my breasts were bigger." But find me a guywho would say, "I wish my penis were bigger." It's a shame guysaren't more open and honest together. They have as many questions,troubles, and fears as girls, but fewer outlets. Guys tease andtaunt each other, yet tend to fret alone. They don't even have manymagazines or books to consult. But you do. So keep reading!
Everything You Ever Wanted to KnowAbout BreastsBack to us girls.
If you're like me, you sometimes get fed up with your figure.Why can't your breasts be medium instead of mountains or molehills?
It's frustrating that your body's timetable answers to hormonesand heredity, rather than to your own wishful thinking. If youhaven't started developing yet, you may be feeling shortchanged. Ifyou've been developing for years, you may worry you'll wind upwith watermelons. Either way, you might envy the average girls whostrut around the locker room parading their bra-and-panty sets.
I envied them. I was in a mad rush to grow up. I couldn't waitto get my breasts on and my braces off, to start getting periods andstop getting pimples. At 14, I was a restless late-blooming flatso. Idressed behind curtains and cringed at breast jokes.
Why are you a sailor's delight? Because you have a sunkenchest! What do members of the Itty Bitty Titty Committee wearinstead of bras? Band-Aids! Pretend you're a boy for a minute.Ahh . . . doesn't that take a load off your chest? Poor Rebecca, girlssaid, was so flat she could wear her bra inside out. And peopleteased Sophie that she'd knock down passersby if she turned without warning.
At first hardly anybody was happy. My friend Ali was as distressedabout being busty as I was about being flat. She sportedbaggy shirts to hide her dramatic décolletage.
It was Ali who told me of the Best Breast Test. "To find out ifyou need a bra, place a pencil underneath one of your boobs andsee if it stays up," she explained. I ducked into the bathroom . . .and my pencil clattered to the floor. Ali handed me two of heroutgrown bras anyway"booby" prizes, since she'd graduated tolarger sizes. I still couldn't imagine putting them on, however. Astringbean classmate had worn a bra to a party the previous weekendand a boy had jeered, "Would you wear shoes if you didn'thave feet?"
Status was at stake when we discussed bra sizes. The idealseemed to be As in school and Bs in bust. I earned no grade: justan incomplete. Later when the subject switched to boys, books,baby-sitting...
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