Life Lessons for Loving the Way You Live

by Canfield, Jack; Hansen, Mark Victor; Hawthorne, Jennifer Read

• ISBN13: 9780757306815
• ISBN10: 0757306810
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2007-10-15
• Publisher: Hci

Summary

Loving the way we live is the closest thing to happiness. Is it possible to be happy all the time? For most of us, happiness comes and goes. Life may bring pleasure one day and pain the next. But what if you could love your life no matter what the circumstances? It's possible--and Life Lessons for Loving the Way You Live shows you how. In this inspiring yet practical book, the authors share some of their most important lessons to help us adjust our attitudes, feel more balanced, and experience the serenity that comes from doing and being our best--no matter what the outcome. Powerful stories illustrate each lesson, with themes such as: feeling more at home in the world creating happiness from the inside out turning fear into courage transforming your life through real honesty letting go of judgments leading with the heart There is a way to love your life--just by the way you live it. With Life Lessons for Loving the Way You Live as your guide , you have a blueprint for being in the world in a new way and experiencing more fulfillment than you ever imagined!

Excerpts

Essential Ingredient #1FINDING THE PLACE WHERE YOU BELONG The universe is holding its breath . . .Waiting for you to take your place.- Jean HoustonLife Lesson #1: Trust Your Vision If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them. -- Henry David Thoreau A vision is something that has been seen. It may be a fantasy you had at a young age that you never let go, or a passion that emerged in a time of crisis. It might be born when you find yourself at a crossroads, no longer willing to do things the same old way. It may arise out of need, as an answer to a problem, or a deep soul desire felt within. And it may seem impractical even impossible.But remember what the Queen said when Alice in Wonderland noted that one can't believe in impossible things: 'I dare say you haven't had much practice. When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast.'It seems to be a quirk of nature that visions can take on a life of their own and find the support they need to come to fruition, once you're clear. If you just trust your vision, the means of fulfilling it seem to gather round in support.A great example is internationally known hair stylist and product developer Jon English. Jon's impossible vision came in his early teens, as he was growing up in a rough area of London. His family was so poor that his father always cut his hair for him. Until the day, that is, when at thirteen, Jon put his foot down and ran away from his father as he tried to catch him. His dad finally gave up, tossed him some money, and told him to go to the village for a haircut.Jon did, and his first 'professional' cut at the barber shop changed him forever. As he walked home, he couldn't stop looking at himself in the glass of the shop windows, unable to believe it was really him. He was acutely aware of how his new look made him feel. And in an instant, a vision of giving that feeling to others arose in him. He got a job at a local beauty salon sweeping up hair after clients' cuts, and the rest, as they say, is history. My vision began to emerge the day I finally admitted that, while I had once loved my job leading business-writing seminars, standing in front of corporate managers from 8:00 to 5:00 had gotten old. So I sat down one day and asked myself what I really wanted to do with my life. The answer came quickly and easily: I wanted to speak not about how to write a better business letter, but about how to live a better life. I wrote down my vision.Shortly after that, my dear friend and colleague Marci Shimoff saw the flyer I had created for my new speaking business and asked to join me. It felt like a wonderful match, and our partnership was born. The first thing we did was to write down our vision: 'To help women understand and experience their inner power and self-worth, so they can c

---

Excerpted from Life Lessons for Loving the Way You Live: 7 Essential Ingredients for Finding Balance and Serenity by Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Jennifer Read Hawthorne, Jennifer Read Hawthorne
All rights reserved by the original copyright owners. Excerpts are provided for display purposes only and may not be reproduced, reprinted or distributed without the written permission of the publisher.