The Middle Of Everything

by Herman, Michelle

• ISBN13: 9780803224261
• ISBN10: 0803224265
• Format: Hardcover
• Copyright: 2005-03-01
• Publisher: Univ of Nebraska Pr

Summary

When she was three months old, Michelle Herman's daughter, Grace, went on a hunger strike. At six, she suffered what can only be described, in the old-fashioned way, as a breakdown. And at the ripe old age of eight, she began a study of the nature of "true romance." Motherhood may come naturally, but it doesn't necessarily come easilycertainly not as easily as it seemed tothismother when she vowed to do a better job than her own mother had. But the real trouble started when Herman decided that "better" wasn't good enough: she would be theperfectmother. A memoir from the front lines of motherhood by a longtime writer of fiction,The Middle of Everythingweaves a daughter's memories of her Brooklyn childhood in the 1950s and 1960s, and the shadow cast on it by her own young mother's paralyzing depression, with a middle-aged woman's account of trying to break her mother's mold by meeting her own child's every need. A story of love of all kinds, of work and friendship (especially best-friendship, its rewards and perils both), of the charms of other people's families, of the miseries and pleasures of aging, and of the twists of the ties that bind each generation to the next, Michelle Herman's book is an energetic, exhaustive, lacerating, unflinching, and often hilarious inside look at the very nature of motherhood.

Author Biography

Michelle Herman teaches in the MFA program in creative writing at the Ohio State University.