Mother Daughter Revolution From Good Girls to Great Women

by Debold, Elizabeth; Wilson, Marie C.; Malave, Idelisse

• ISBN13: 9780553374186
• ISBN10: 0553374184
• Edition: Reprint
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 1994-09-01
• Publisher: Bantam

Summary

As the daughters of baby boomer moms approach womanhood the questions begin. Will I teach my daughter the right things? How do I correct the mistakes my mother made with me? Mother Daughter Revolution: From Betrayal to Power addresses all the issues that a mother guiding a budding woman could possibly need to know about. Authors Elizabeth Debold, Marie Wilson, and Idelisse Malave approach these dilemmas as would any other mother who is concerned with the survival of her daughter in a male-dominant society would. This book centers on women's attempts to build trusting relationships with their daughters. The foundation of this trust is based on removing the feeling of betrayal that develops when daughters feel that their mothers have not prepared them for the earthshaking changes they experience during adolescence. Lack of preparation for these changes leads to a lack of confidence and an inability to deal with competition. Mother Daughter Revolution is written in a problem and solution style and describes the path from adolescence to womanhood through identifiable stories and anecdotes. Many mothers recount stories of being told by their mothers to "be nice" because "nice girls get married and get good things." Well, these new mothers opt to tell their daughters that being nice is not always an option, especially if "being nice" infringes upon their rights.

Author Biography

Dr. Elizabeth Debold has published numerous articles about human and moral development, gender issues, and girls' self-knowledge and growth. She has consulted to a variety of organizations ranging from corporate law firms to nonprofit educational organizations, has lectured widely, and has appeared as a guest on numerous television and radio programs, including Oprah , Good Morning America and NPR’s 51%. Debold is currently the Academic Director of the Master's Program in Conscious Evolution that WIE is running in partnership with The Graduate Institute, in Milford, Connecticut.

She received her doctorate in Human Development and Psychology from Harvard University, and was a founding member of the Harvard Project on Women's Psychology and Girls' Development, which was directed by Dr. Carol Gilligan.

Table of Contents

Introduction	p. ix
Unnecessary Losses
The Crossroads	p. 5
From Power to Betrayal	p. 39
The Stories We Live By	p. 75
Lessons in Resistance
Reclaiming	p. 99
Voice Lessons	p. 132
Joining	p. 176
The Power of Desire	p. 202
Body Language	p. 236
A Revolution of Mothers
Intimate Allies	p. 264
From Betrayal to Power	p. 294
Notes	p. 315
Resources	p. 344
Index	p. 355
Acknowledgments	p. 372
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