ScreamFree Marriage

by RUNKEL, HAL EDWARDRUNKEL, JENNY

• ISBN13: 9780767932776
• ISBN10: 0767932773
• Format: Hardcover
• Copyright: 2011-02-01
• Publisher: Harmony

Summary

Through the best-sellingScreamFree Parenting, Hal Runkel showed thousands of parents how keeping their cool can revolutionize their family life. In his groundbreaking new book,ScreamFree Marriage, Runkel now shows couples how learning to stay calm, in the face of common marital conflicts, is the key to creating and enjoying a deep, lifelong connection. Every committed couple strives to hold on to the marriage they envisioned back when they first said "I do"--before the end of the honeymoon phase, before kids, mortgages, health crises, and all life's inescapable issues. But the truth is this: conflict is unavoidable--it's impossible for two people to see every single thing, face every issue, and experience every situation in exactly the same way. What results are couples "screaming" at each other--sometimes literally yelling out loud, sometimes shutting themselves down and shutting their partners out, and sometimes avoiding the issue altogether--none of which leads to the passionate, intimate connection we all crave. InScreamFree Marriage, Hal introduces some radical new concepts about marriage, teaching couples how to embrace this inevitable conflict as a profound vehicle for strengthening a marriage. Rather than just a source of pain and disagreement, these "Fires of Commitment," as Hal describes them, can actually be the exact experience needed to grow couples into new levels of maturity and intimacy. By simply learning the ScreamFree formula of Calming Down, Growing Up, and Getting Closer, you too can cross through these fires and end up with a closer and more passionate marriage than ever before. Using accessible anecdotes and the disarming humor that readers have come to love, Runkel disproves prevailing marital wisdom, puts couples on a path to "intimate independence" and reveals a whole new, fresh approach to marriage. From the Hardcover edition.

Table of Contents

Preface: Hold On-This May Not Be the Marriage Book for You	p. xiii
A Word about Structure and Authorship	p. xix
Calming Down, Growing Up, Getting Closer
If You're Not Under Control, You Cannot Be In Connection	p. 7
It's Not What You Have in Common, It's What You Have Inside	p. 33
If You're Not Part of the Solution, You're Still Part of the Problem	p. 55
The Fires of Marital Commitment
Time Belongs to No Man, Especially a Married One [The Fire of Time Accountability]	p. 93
In Order to Move in Together, You Have to Move Out on Your Own [The Fire of Extended Families]	p. 116
This Mess Is a Place! [The Fire of Household Management]	p. 142
A ScreamFree Marriage Leads to Scream-Filled Sex [The Fire of Sexuality]	p. 173
Getting Closer through Intimacy and Love
Intimacy Always Begins with an ôIö	p. 203
Let Love Rule	p. 221
Conclusion: Reason for Hope	p. 240
There's More Than One Way to Screamà	p. 249
Should I Stay or Should I Go?	p. 261
For Further Readingàand Growing	p. 269
Acknowledgments	p. 271
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