101 Support Group Activities for Teenagers Who Bully : A Leader's Manual for Secondary Educators and Other Professionals, Grades 6-12

by Mathews, David J.

• ISBN13: 9781568388380
• ISBN10: 1568388381
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2002-03-01
• Publisher: Hazelden

Summary

Activities help students who bully other children recognize and change their destructive behaviors. Features "what you might expect" section for facilitators.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments	vi
Introduction	1	(24)
Phase 1	25	(28)
Introductions	27	(1)
Group Expectations	28	(2)
Group Goals	30	(2)
Sharing My Name with Gusto	32	(1)
Feelings Check-in	33	(2)
Circle of Courage	35	(2)
A Truth and a Lie	37	(2)
The Big Wind Blows	39	(2)
Eye Tag	41	(1)
Perspectives	42	(2)
How Many Things Can You Use a Napkin For?	44	(2)
Continuum of Experiences	46	(3)
Group Knots	49	(2)
Group Geometry	51	(2)
Phase 2	53	(72)
Which Is a Priority?	55	(2)
Group Priorities	57	(2)
Feelings Tag	59	(3)
Feelings Volleyball	62	(2)
Secret Feelings	64	(2)
Face on a Cup	66	(1)
I've Got a Feeling	67	(1)
Feelings Charades	68	(2)
House of Cards	70	(2)
Feelings Face-off	72	(2)
Feelings Stories	74	(2)
Matching Feelings with Faces	76	(1)
Anger Collage	77	(2)
I Feel Good about Myself Because	79	(2)
Decisions, Choices, Who I Am, and Who I Am Not	81	(2)
Collage of My Life	83	(2)
My Strengths	85	(2)
Masks of Who We Are Outside and Who We Are Inside	87	(1)
If You Had Three Wishes	88	(2)
Boys' Rules and Girls' Rules	90	(2)
Similarities and Things We Share	92	(2)
Mirroring the Leader	94	(2)
All Tangled Up	96	(2)
Animal Family Drawing	98	(1)
Family Sculptures	99	(2)
What the Perfect Family Looks Like	101	(2)
Important People to Me	103	(2)
Collage of Characteristics I Aspire To	105	(2)
Guess Who My Role Model Is	107	(2)
Role Model Collage	109	(1)
Interviewing Someone with Peaceful Behavior Experience	110	(2)
Reinventing Reputations	112	(3)
Reputations: The Good, the Bad, and the Struggling	115	(3)
Woogie Woogie	118	(2)
Music Lyrics and What They Say	120	(2)
Mobile of Peace	122	(3)
Phase 3	125	(102)
Defining Violence, Abuse, and Bullying	127	(2)
Recognizing Signals	129	(3)
Draw the Anger Volcano	132	(2)
Confusion and Frustration Can Be My Friends	134	(2)
Being Assertive	136	(4)
One's Up, One's Down	140	(2)
The Passive Game	142	(3)
Communicate Assertively	145	(2)
When I'm Angry	147	(2)
When Someone Is Angry at Me	149	(3)
What Is Respect Like?	152	(2)
Telling When Assertiveness Worked	154	(3)
Assertive Choices	157	(2)
Communication with Peers	159	(2)
Communication with Adults and Authorities	161	(2)
Obstacle Course of Assertiveness	163	(2)
No One Understands This Part of Me	165	(2)
Role-play Appropriate Communication	167	(2)
Being Heard by Others	169	(3)
Draw the First Problem Situation You Were In	172	(2)
Mind Talk	174	(2)
The Only Person I Can Control Is Myself	176	(2)
I Just Reacted	178	(2)
Tug-of-choice	180	(2)
Responsible Behavior Plans	182	(3)
Healthy Choices	185	(2)
Choice Web	187	(2)
Knowing My Power	189	(1)
Peaceful Alphabet	190	(1)
Tough Times	191	(2)
Choosing to Respond or Share a Fact	193	(2)
Writing Group Stories	195	(2)
What Would I Tell a Friend in Trouble?	197	(2)
Pushing Hands	199	(3)
Survival Life	202	(2)
Walking Away When You Can	204	(2)
Barriers to Successful Behavior	206	(2)
Stories of Peaceful Ways to Deal with Conflict	208	(2)
How Do I Want to Be Treated When I Do Something Wrong?	210	(2)
Possible Endings to Impossible Situations	212	(2)
Sexual Bullying: I Hear ``No,'' I Believe ``No''	214	(2)
Face-to-face	216	(2)
Impact Web	218	(2)
Journey of Peace	220	(2)
A Safe Place	222	(2)
Building a Community of Peace	224	(3)
Phase 4	227	(2)
Accessing Support	229	(2)
Support Web	231	(2)
Supportive Adults in My Life	233	(2)
What I Learned	235	(1)
Go-around Good-byes	236