Foreword | p. ix |
Acknowledgments | p. xv |
Introduction | p. 1 |
Anger: Introduction and Overview | p. 5 |
Types of Anger | |
A Closer Look: Steve's Story | |
What Do We Mean by "Anger"? | |
Dissecting the Anger Experience | |
How We Feel It: Anger in the Body | |
Attention: The Spotlight of the Mind | |
Things We Tell Ourselves: Thoughts, Reasoning, and Rumination | |
Playing It Out in Our Minds: Imagery and Fantasy | |
Driven to Act: The Power of Motivation | |
Things We Do: Angry Behavior | |
Conclusion | |
The Compassionate-Mind Approach to Understanding Anger | p. 27 |
Finding Ourselves Here | |
Old Brains and New Brains | |
A Model of Emotion | |
The Three Circles | |
The Threat and Self-Protection System | |
The Drive and Resource Acquisition System | |
The Soothing and Safeness System | |
Calming Down the Threat System | |
Conclusion | |
When Things Become Unbalanced | p. 49 |
Evolved Brains in the Modern World | |
Chasing Imbalance | |
Why Me? | |
If You Didn't Get What You Needed | |
Learning To Be Angry | |
Implicit Memory and the Construction of "Reality" | |
Triggers | |
Fault and Responsibility | |
Conclusion | |
The Case for Compassion | p. 71 |
The Heart of Compassion | |
So What Exactly Is Compassion | |
How Compassion Organizes Our Minds | |
Attributes of the Compassionate Mind | |
Skills Training | |
Warmth | |
Conclusion | |
First Steps | p. 87 |
The Courage to Change: Compassionate Motivation | |
David's Example | |
Using Compassionate Attention with Arousal: Soothing-Rhythm Breathing | |
The Compassion Practice Journal | |
Conclusion | |
The Cultivation of Mindfulness | p. 101 |
Mindfulness: A Workout for the Brain | |
Mindfulness of the Breath | |
Mindfulness and Working with Anger | |
Conclusion | |
Compassionate Imagery: Developing the Compassionate Self | p. 119 |
Using Imagery | |
Cultivating the Compassionate Self | |
Considering Self-Compassion | |
The Compassionate Self in Action | |
Using Imagery to Engage Your Safeness System | |
"Don't Think of a White Bear!" | |
Your Ideal Compassionate | |
Image | |
Compassion Flowing into Us | |
Bringing Compassion to Pain | |
The Safe-Place Exercise | |
Conclusion | |
Working Compassionately with Anger: Validation, Distress Tolerance, and Exploring Your Emotional Self | p. 145 |
A Case Example: Sheila and Josh | |
Getting to Know Your Anger Response | |
Compassionate Validation of Anger as a Threat Response | |
Tolerating Distress and Discomfort | |
Distress-Tolerance Strategies | |
Exploring Emotions Behind Your Anger | |
The "Two Chairs" Technique | |
Conclusion | |
Working Compassionately with Anger: Mentalizing, Compassionate Thinking, and Problem Solving | p. 167 |
Mentalizing | |
Learning to Pause and Ask Yourself Questions | |
Working Compassionately with Angry Thinking | |
"What Would My Compassionate Self Thinks" | |
The Compassionate-Thinking Flash Card | |
"What Would My Compassionate Self Do?" | |
Conclusion | |
Compassionate Behavior: Relating Compassionately with Others | p. 185 |
Assertiveness | |
Expressing Emotions and Desires | |
Working with Your Limitations | |
Expressing Disagreement | |
Reconciliation | |
Apologizing | |
Forgiveness | |
When Things Don't Go the Way You'd Like | |
Positive Interactions: The Building Blocks of Good Relationships | |
Conclusion | |
Bringing Compassion to Your Experience of Others | p. 209 |
Compassionate Recognition of Our Common Humanity | |
Cultivating Empathy | |
Deepening Empathy with Mentalization | |
Sympathy | |
Bringing Empathy to Your Angry Interactions | |
Compassionate Imagery: Bringing Compassion to a Challenging Other | |
Conclusion | |
Full Circle: Bringing Compassion and Kindness to Yourself | p. 225 |
Compassionate Behavior: Self-Care | |
Broadening Your Perspective | |
Conclusion | |
Moving Forward: Approaching Anger and Life with Compassion | p. 237 |
Organizing Your Approach to Anger: The RAGE Model | |
Conclusion | |
Appendix | p. 245 |
Useful Books and CDs for Working with Anger | |
Useful Websites | |
Notes | p. 251 |
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