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A Real Person Like Myself | p. 1 |
You Are Raising a Spirit Throbbing with Its Own Signature | p. 2 |
Parenting Unconsciously Is Where We All Begin | p. 4 |
To Connect with Your Children, First Connect with Yourself | p. 6 |
You Can Build a Feeling of Kinship in Your Family | p. 9 |
How Consciousness Changes How We Parent | p. 10 |
The Spiritual Reason We Birth Our Children | p. 13 |
How Can a Child Awaken an Adult? | p. 15 |
How Conscious Parenting Is Learned | p. 19 |
A Conscious Parent Doesn't Emerge Overnight | p. 21 |
Release Your Children From the Need for Your Approval | p. 25 |
Acceptance Is Key | p. 28 |
There's Nothing Passive About Acceptance | p. 30 |
Don't Parent with a Cookie-Cutter Approach | p. 31 |
You Will Only Accept Your Child to the Degree You Accept Yourself | p. 35 |
A Blow to Our Ego | p. 39 |
How Does Ego Function? | p. 40 |
The Ego of Image | p. 43 |
The Ego of Perfection | p. 44 |
The Ego of Status | p. 47 |
The Ego of Conformity | p. 48 |
The Ego of Being "In Control" | p. 50 |
You Can Transition Out of Ego | p. 53 |
Is Your Child Growing You Up? | p. 56 |
Face Up to Your Reactivity | p. 58 |
Discover Your Emotional Inheritance | p. 61 |
How Can You Integrate Your Pain? | p. 64 |
How to Handle Your Child's Pain | p. 65 |
Take One Step at a Time | p. 68 |
What It Takes to Tame Your Anxiety | p. 74 |
Life Is Wise | p. 77 |
Life Itself Teaches Us | p. 78 |
Is It Possible to Trust Life? | p. 80 |
Your Child Doesn't Need to Earn Your Trust | p. 81 |
How You Draw Many of Your Circumstances to You | p. 83 |
You Can Break Free of Your Unconsciousness | p. 86 |
It's All in the Interpretation We Give it | p. 89 |
The Challenge of a Lifetime | p. 95 |
Infancy and the "Terrible Two's" | |
The Lessons of Infancy for the Parent | p. 96 |
A Journey of Self-discovery | p. 98 |
A Chance to Recover Your Rhythm | p. 100 |
Toddlerhood: A Planet All Its Own | p. 102 |
Toddlerhood Is the Time to Sow the Seeds of Containment | p. 105 |
From Center Stage to Supportiang Cast | p. 109 |
A Parent's Opportunity for Spiritual | |
Growth in the School Years | |
Middle School: the Challenge of "Being There" for Our Children | p. 110 |
High School: the Need for Unequivocal Acceptance | p. 113 |
Why It's Important to Resist the Temptation to Control | p. 115 |
The Insanity of Parenthood | p. 117 |
The Particular Role of the Mother | p. 118 |
Raising a Child Is an Invitation to Surrender to a Different Pace | p. 122 |
Parent From Wholeness Instead of Your Wounds | p. 125 |
If You Grew Up Feeling You Weren't Good Enough | p. 127 |
If You Learned to Please Others to Earn Their Approval | p. 130 |
Were You Unable to Be Yourself? | p. 134 |
"Bad" Behavior Is Really a Search for Our Inherent Goodness | p. 137 |
Your Brokenness Doesn't Reflect Your True Being | p. 139 |
A Household Built on Being | p. 141 |
Are You Aware that Anxiety Is a Form of "Doing?" | p. 144 |
What's the Source of Our Fear of the Present? | p. 147 |
Beyond Living by "Doing" | p. 149 |
The Moment Is Now | p. 151 |
The Wonder of the Ordinary | p. 155 |
Do You Revel In Your Child's Ordinariness? | p. 156 |
The Fallacy of the Overproduction of Life | p. 158 |
Surrender the Urgency to "Do" | p. 161 |
Back to Basics | p. 162 |
A Life that Mirrors Who Your Child Is | p. 165 |
Shelve Those Great Expectations | p. 167 |
Honor Who Your Child Is | p. 168 |
How to Set the Bar for Your Child | p. 169 |
What Can You Realistically Expect of Your Child? | p. 172 |
Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome | p. 174 |
Use the Right Kind of Praise | p. 178 |
Realize that Your Children Imitate You | p. 179 |
Create a Conscious Space In Your Child's Life | p. 183 |
Allow Room for Stillness in Your Child's Schedule | p. 184 |
Create a Meaningful Narrative for Your Child | p. 186 |
Why Expressing Gratitude to Your Child Is a Powerful Parenting Tool | p. 188 |
Connect to Your Child with Engaged Presence | p. 193 |
How We Undermine Our Attempts to Connect with Our Children | p. 195 |
Do You Validate Your Children's Behavior, or Their Being? | p. 197 |
Just Be There | p. 200 |
How to Handle Your Child's Mistakes | p. 205 |
Do You Really Know Why They Did What They Did? | p. 206 |
How You Can Transform Mistakes into Spiritual Gold | p. 208 |
Celebrate Your Child's Mistakes | p. 210 |
The Two Wings of the Eagle | p. 213 |
A Child Can't Soar Without Containment | p. 214 |
The Spiritual Approach to Discipline | p. 218 |
Don't Avoid Conflict-Value It | p. 221 |
How to Discipline in a Manner that Works | p. 223 |
The Rule about Rules | p. 226 |
Why Teaching Is More Effective Than Punishment | p. 229 |
Acting Out Reflects Unmet Emotional Needs | p. 232 |
Do You Own Your Part in Your Children's Behavior? | p. 234 |
Why Delightful Children Turn into Defiant Teens | p. 238 |
Heavy-handed Tactics Backfire | p. 241 |
How to Execute the "No" | p. 245 |
Timing Is Crucial | p. 249 |
Afterword | |
Understanding Our Shared Unconsciousness | p. 253 |
We're All in This Together | p. 254 |
Becoming a Parent Who Is Present | p. 256 |
Appendix | |
The Consciousness Compass | p. 259 |
Questions to Ask Ourselves | |
Some Highlights From the Conscious Parent | p. 263 |
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