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| Introduction | |
| How to Use This Book | |
| Assigning Tasks | |
| Debriefing | |
| Generic Tasks | |
| Stacking the Deck | |
| Personal Pep Talk | |
| Grey Areas | |
| Love O' Meter | |
| Session Preparation | |
| Feedback Log | |
| Learning the Language | |
| Chart Your Course | |
| Taking Charge of Change | |
| Unpack Loaded and Vague Words | |
| Doing Love and Intimacy | |
| Track the Problems and Solutions | |
| Identify and Validate Your Partner's Feelings and Points of View | |
| Changing Character Indictments to Action Descriptions | |
| Identify What has Worked and Do More of That | |
| Little Things Mean a Lot | |
| Keep One Eye on the Road | |
| Time Travel | |
| What is Your Map of Love-Land | |
| Acknowledgment | |
| Catch Your Partner Doing Something Right | |
| Let Your Partner Know What Behaviors You'd Like | |
| Just the Facts, Ma'am | |
| Map the Problem | |
| Breaking Patterns | |
| Don't Get Even, Get Odd | |
| Change the Context | |
| Negotiating Impasses | |
| Go Ape | |
| Letter to the Problem | |
| Going Postal Instead of Going Postal | |
| Lighten Your Load | |
| Can Do! | |
| Plant a Tree | |
| General Issues/Values Conflicts for Couples | |
| Timeout Handout | |
| Anger Log | |
| Setting Boundaries | |
| Bio Dots | |
| Breathing | |
| Lets Get Physical | |
| Value Your Differences | |
| Accountability | |
| Restoring Trust and Faith When One Partner Has Betrayed the Relationship | |
| Inequities | |
| Feeling Responsible: Who Initiates Things That Need to be Done | |
| Intimacy | |
| Styles of and Motivation for Arguing | |
| Forgiveness | |
| Money/Financial Conflicts | |
| A Common Destination | |
| Negotiating Socializing Preference and Differences | |
| Creating a Mission | |
| Specific Problem Areas for Couples | |
| Chronic or Unproductive Arguments | |
| Verbal Abuse | |
| Boxing Clutter to a TKO | |
| Separating Work from Home Life | |
| Planned Spontaneity | |
| A Safe Place for the Traumatic Memories | |
| Chronic Lateness from Work | |
| Set Limits with Consequences Sexual Issues and Problems | |
| Mix 'N' Match Sexual Menu for Expanding Your Sex Life Exercise III.10 Pleasure Teaching Session | |
| Dealing with Impotence | |
| Help for Premature Ejaculation | |
| Initiation Week | |
| Lightening Up about Sexuality and Weight Gain | |
| A Night to Remember Family, Stepfamily, and Parenting Problems | |
| Wrestling with the Challenging Task of Parenting | |
| In-Law Problems | |
| Get a Roommate | |
| Circle the Wagons | |
| Reproducible Forms and Brochures Suggestions for Making Conversations More Productive Movies about Couples | |
| An Appreciative | |
| Interview to Celebrate the Anniversary of Your Marriage | |
| Interview with My Valentine Appreciative Inquiry | |
| Interview Protocol: Life-giving Relationships Guidelines for Couples' | |
| Communication How to Solve | |
| Relationship Problems Creating or Renewing Intimacy Pocket Emergency | |
| Guidelines Getting Over an Affair | |
| Dealing with a Partner or Spouse with a Chemical Abuse Problem | |
| Preventing or Dealing with Violence in a Relationship | |
| Solving Sexual Problems | |
| Train Your Therapist | |
| Relationship Rescue: Team Methods for Resolving Relationship Crises | |
| Dealing with the Death of a Child | |
| Generic Assignment Form | |
| References | |
| About the Disc | |
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