Introduction | p. xiii |
It's a Boy! | p. 1 |
Why Does Gender Matter? | p. 1 |
Are Boys Different from Girls? | p. 3 |
Research about Boys and Girls | p. 4 |
Who's Easier? | p. 5 |
Myths about Raising Boys | p. 7 |
Exploring Your Own Expectations | p. 9 |
What Do You Want for Your Son? | p. 11 |
Preparing Yourself to Raise Your Son | p. 13 |
How Parents Affect Their Children | p. 13 |
Learning from Your Parents | p. 15 |
The Nature of Attachment | p. 16 |
Self-Care and Balance | p. 18 |
A Word about Your Relationship | p. 21 |
What You Will Do as a Parent | p. 23 |
The Basics of Parenting Your Son | p. 25 |
Belonging and Significance | p. 25 |
Why Relationships Matter to Boys | p. 27 |
What about Birth Order? | p. 30 |
Understanding the Beliefs Behind Behavior | p. 32 |
Kindness and Firmness | p. 35 |
Learning to Listen | p. 37 |
The Importance of Early Decisions | p. 39 |
The Message of Love | p. 40 |
Your Son's First Year | p. 41 |
Physical Development and Parenting | p. 41 |
Brain Development | p. 43 |
Your Son's Emotional Development | p. 47 |
Your Son's Cognitive Development | p. 48 |
What If I Think Something's Wrong? | p. 50 |
Temperament | p. 51 |
The Importance of Touch for Boys | p. 54 |
Do Babies Need Discipline? | p. 55 |
Child-Care | p. 56 |
Your Preschool Boy | p. 59 |
Creating a Safe Environment | p. 59 |
Language and Social Skills | p. 62 |
Getting into Your Son's World | p. 66 |
The Value of Curiosity | p. 67 |
Developmental Appropriateness | p. 68 |
The Terrible Trio | p. 70 |
Mealtimes, Snacks, and Other Challenges | p. 70 |
Nighty-Night-or Not | p. 73 |
The Perils of Potty Training | p. 74 |
Is It Too Soon for Technology? | p. 75 |
Discipline as Teaching | p. 77 |
Discipline and Long-Range Parenting | p. 77 |
Connection Before Correction | p. 80 |
Discipline Versus Punishment | p. 81 |
Following Through | p. 84 |
Encouraging Communication | p. 86 |
Teaching Life Skills | p. 91 |
Boys and Emotions | p. 93 |
The Myth of the Stoic Male | p. 93 |
The Voice of Culture | p. 94 |
The Purpose of Emotions | p. 95 |
Teaching an Emotional Vocabulary | p. 96 |
Learning Maturity | p. 99 |
Anger: The Acceptable Male Emotion | p. 101 |
Boys and Depression | p. 103 |
Keeping Your Son Connected | p. 105 |
Boys and Dads | p. 107 |
What Sons Learn from Their Fathers | p. 107 |
Play and Active Love | p. 111 |
Fathers and Empathy | p. 114 |
How and When to Support Mom | p. 116 |
Being Your Son's Role Model | p. 117 |
The Gift of Fatherhood | p. 119 |
Boys and Moms | p. 121 |
The Dilemma of Mothers and Sons | p. 121 |
What Sons Learn from Their Mothers | p. 123 |
Connecting with Your Son | p. 125 |
How Close Is Too Close? | p. 128 |
Mom Can Play, Too | p. 129 |
The Other Women | p. 131 |
Preparing Your Son to Learn | p. 133 |
Why Boys Struggle with School | p. 133 |
How Boys Learn | p. 136 |
Helping Your Son Succeed in School | p. 138 |
Boys and Books | p. 139 |
Attention Deficit Disorder | p. 142 |
Grades and Homework | p. 145 |
The Dangers of Praise | p. 147 |
What about Same-Sex Schools? | p. 147 |
Boys and Their Peers | p. 149 |
Development of Social Skills | p. 149 |
Boys and Their Friends | p. 152 |
Sports and Competition | p. 154 |
The Importance of Play | p. 157 |
Bullying and Aggression | p. 158 |
Making Room for Girls | p. 162 |
Supporting Your Son's Friendships | p. 163 |
The Adolescent Boy | p. 165 |
Understanding the Adolescent Brain | p. 165 |
Hormones, Emotions, and Anger | p. 167 |
The Task of Adolescence | p. 169 |
Setting Appropriate Limits with Your Son | p. 171 |
Curfew, Dating, and Driving | p. 174 |
Enjoying Your Son | p. 177 |
The Importance of Character | p. 179 |
Teaching Character | p. 179 |
Encouragement Versus Praise | p. 181 |
Teaching Responsibility | p. 183 |
Mindsight and Compassion | p. 185 |
Ethics: Encouraging Integrity | p. 188 |
Spirituality in Your Son's Life | p. 189 |
Supporting Resilience and Self-Reliance | p. 190 |
Boys and the Outside World | p. 193 |
The Power of Mass Media | p. 193 |
Taming the Television | p. 195 |
Boys, Media, and Violence | p. 197 |
Video and Computer Games | p. 199 |
Keeping Up with Your Kid | p. 200 |
Life in the Digital World | p. 201 |
Movies, Music, and More | p. 204 |
Dealing with Risky Behavior | p. 207 |
Adolescent Immortality | p. 207 |
Influencing Your Son's Behavior | p. 209 |
Talking to Your Son | p. 211 |
What about Your Past? | p. 213 |
Spying on Your Son | p. 214 |
Smoking in the Boys' Room | p. 216 |
Boys and Sexuality | p. 219 |
Gender Identity in Boys | p. 219 |
Teaching Your Son about Sex | p. 221 |
Sex in the Real World | p. 223 |
Becoming Sexually Active | p. 225 |
Is My Son Gay? | p. 227 |
Affection with Your Growing Son | p. 229 |
Coping with Real-Life Responsibilities | p. 231 |
Encouraging Responsibility in Your Son | p. 231 |
Chores and Allowance | p. 233 |
The Art of Managing Money | p. 236 |
Should Your Son Get a Job? | p. 239 |
Respect, Courtesy, and Manners | p. 241 |
Self-Reliance in Action | p. 242 |
Single Parents and Stepfamilies | p. 245 |
No More Broken Homes | p. 245 |
The Effect of Divorce on Boys | p. 247 |
Coparenting | p. 249 |
Life in a Single-Parent Home | p. 252 |
Stepfamilies That Work | p. 254 |
Little Men | p. 257 |
Getting Ready to Let Go | p. 259 |
Knowing When It's Time to Step Back | p. 259 |
Weaning | p. 260 |
Life Skills and Independence | p. 261 |
From Parent to Mentor | p. 263 |
When Your Son Returns Home | p. 264 |
The Empty Nest | p. 267 |
Keeping the Connection Alive | p. 269 |
Celebrate Your Son | p. 271 |
A Moment for Reflection | p. 271 |
Setting the Stage | p. 273 |
Have Faith in Your Son | p. 274 |
Rituals and Traditions | p. 275 |
Staying in Touch | p. 277 |
Congratulations! You Raised a Son | p. 279 |
Bibliography | p. 281 |
Additional Resources | p. 283 |
Index | p. 285 |
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