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Acknowledgments | p. XIII |
An Invitation to Happiness Together | p. XV |
Treat Each Encounter as Though It Could Be Your Last | p. 1 |
My Mantra: Love & Live Happy | p. 3 |
Live at Ten | p. 6 |
Pay Attention | p. 9 |
Read Some Quality Literature Regularly | p. 12 |
Go on Vacations Alone, Together | p. 15 |
Assume More Responsibility at Home | p. 17 |
Have 50-50 Voting Power | p. 20 |
Criticize with Kindness | p. 22 |
Encourage Each Other to Do Something Every Day That Will Boost Happiness | p. 24 |
No Awkward Surprises | p. 27 |
Together, Explore Your Spirituality | p. 30 |
Write Each Other's New Year's Resolutions | p. 33 |
Celebrate More | p. 37 |
Work Daily on Your Character | p. 40 |
Begin Each Encounter with a Smile | p. 48 |
Don't Let Children Control You | p. 51 |
Listen with a Third Ear | p. 54 |
It's Okay to Agree to Disagree | p. 57 |
Nurture Your Core Identity | p. 59 |
Surround Yourselves with Mutual Friends | p. 62 |
Don't Discuss Your Intimacy and Secrets with Others | p. 65 |
Be There as a Support for All Important Occasions | p. 67 |
A Home Has No Boss | p. 69 |
It Feels Good to Look Good | p. 71 |
When You Are Together, Be Together | p. 74 |
Take Care of Your Own Health | p. 76 |
Share Sensuous Meal Preparation | p. 79 |
Encourage Adventures | p. 81 |
Temper Your Temper | p. 84 |
Run Errands Together | p. 87 |
White Lies Are Always Dangerous | p. 89 |
Write Love Notes | p. 91 |
Give the Gift of Eye Contact | p. 94 |
Mess Up, Clean Up | p. 96 |
Offer to Help | p. 98 |
Establish Your Own Rituals and Traditions | p. 100 |
Stop Disappearing | p. 102 |
Keep Business and Personal Affairs in Order | p. 104 |
Allow Each Other Freedom for Contemplation | p. 106 |
When Necessary, Be the Nurse | p. 109 |
Bring Flowers Home | p. 111 |
Talk Up, Not Down | p. 114 |
Stop the Teasing | p. 118 |
Sincerely Say You're Sorry | p. 119 |
Encourage Each Other to Have More Fun | p. 121 |
Don't Move Things from Each Other's Personal Spaces | p. 124 |
Encourage Self-Expression | p. 126 |
When Treats Become Traps | p. 131 |
Remember Important Dates | p. 134 |
Women Like to Talk Things Out | p. 136 |
Don't Correct Each Other in Public | p. 138 |
Generous Compliments Lighten the Heart | p. 140 |
Explore Together Your Invisible Wealth | p. 143 |
Don't Discuss Weight | p. 147 |
Try Not to Interrupt | p. 149 |
Tit-for-Tat Is Tiresome | p. 151 |
Conversations Shouldn't Be Monologues | p. 153 |
Be More Sentimental and Indulge Each Other | p. 155 |
Never Pick a Fight | p. 158 |
Please Don't Say Something You'll Regret | p. 161 |
Play to Each Other's Strengths | p. 163 |
Set Aside Certain Times for Serious Discussions | p. 165 |
Control Your Tone | p. 167 |
Grumpiness Is Contagious | p. 169 |
Say "It's Okay" | p. 172 |
Patience, Patience | p. 174 |
Discover and Rediscover Each Other's Passions | p. 176 |
Eat as Many Meals Together as Possible | p. 179 |
Set Aside Times to Sit and Read Together | p. 181 |
Stimulate Your Curiosity | p. 184 |
Kindness and Diplomacy Win Hearts and Minds | p. 187 |
Live a Little! | p. 190 |
Me & You | p. 192 |
Your Happiness Is Up to You | p. 195 |
Afterword | p. 199 |
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Chapter One
Treat Each Encounter as Though It Could Be Your Last
Each day should be passed as though it were our last.
Publilius Syrus
When we think of each encounter as though it could be the last, there is a poetic tenderness that perfumes the atmosphere. We're living in the post-9/11 era, with a raised consciousness about how vulnerable we are. We never know if we will ever see each other again. The wisest way to keep our love fresh is to be aware of how deeply intertwined our lives are. When we live in the heart of each moment together, if and when our lover is taken from us, we will have few regrets.
What would you do differently if this moment together were your last? Think of someone you love who has died. Do you remember the last time you were together? Do you recall what you said and did?
We should keep our relationship up-to-date, moment by moment. It doesn't matter where we are or what the circumstances are as long as we're together. Now, remind yourself, you have each other and can hold each other affectionately. This acute awareness of the fragility of our love affair should change the way we think and act. Now may be the only time we have.
From this day forward, gently enjoy the sacred bond between you. Whenever we live in this consciousness, it sparks the flames of love and intensifies our appreciation of the moment and of the shortness of life on earth.
I have found sublime happiness with Peter. I know this paradise on earth will not last forever. I'm aware at the same time that the energy of love never dies. While we have this blessing of our love for each other, we intend to treasure every moment we're privileged to be alive, in love, and together.
It is my fervent wish for you that each time you are with your lover, you will know anew how rare your happiness is, and your heart will overflow with appreciation.
When two souls in love meet and find happiness for two, this is the greatest blessing we can have bestowed upon us on this fleeting earthly journey. With all our relationships, when we understand each encounter as though it could be our last, we honor ourselves and others. See the light in your lover and others and openly express your gratitude and love.
Treasure each other in the recognition that we do not know how long we shall have each other.
Joshua Loth Liebman
Excerpted from Happiness for Two: 75 Secrets for Finding More Joy Together by Alexandra Stoddard
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