Successes From People Who Work With Clients | p. ii |
Dedication | p. vII |
Contents | p. ix |
Foreword | p. xiii |
Acknowledgements | p. xv |
Opening to a Different Way | p. 1 |
The Opening | p. 3 |
Stages and Phases of Forgiveness | p. 4 |
The Very First Step Is: | p. 5 |
The Search for What Works | p. 8 |
Facing Deep Trauma | p. 10 |
How it Works | p. 13 |
The Best-kept Secret | p. 14 |
The Types of Forgiveness | p. 15 |
The Myths of Forgiveness | p. 16 |
The Forgiveness Battle | p. 17 |
The Effects of Trauma and High Stress | p. 18 |
The War of the Brains | p. 20 |
Quieting the Stressed System | p. 22 |
Success in Forgiving | p. 24 |
What Forgiving Really Is | p. 28 |
How Do You Know You Have Really Forgiven? | p. 31 |
Justice and Punishment | p. 32 |
Effects of Hostility | p. 34 |
Important Points for Effective Forgiving | p. 34 |
Always Be Aware Of | p. 34 |
The First Essential Aspect | p. 35 |
The Major Barrier to Forgiving: | p. 37 |
Forgiving Big Issues | p. 39 |
The Key Question | p. 40 |
The First Hurdle | p. 42 |
The Blocks to Forgiving | p. 43 |
The Myths of Forgiveness | p. 43 |
The Second Hurdle | p. 61 |
The Proven Benefits of Forgiving | p. 62 |
Research Results | p. 62 |
Forgiveness Therapy Results | p. 64 |
Increased Energy and Uplifted Spirits | p. 64 |
Changes in Others | p. 65 |
Happier Relationships | p. 65 |
Positive Results with Children | p. 66 |
Dealing with Marriage and New Relationships | p. 66 |
Physical Healing | p. 67 |
Hope | p. 69 |
The Seldom Used Act That Brings Big Results: | p. 72 |
The Simplest Forgiveness Practice | p. 73 |
Hope for Humankind | p. 74 |
The Third Hurdle | p. 75 |
Going Deeper | p. 77 |
Making Sense of Our Thinking | p. 79 |
Why Habits Are Hard to Break | p. 80 |
How the Brain Works Best | p. 93 |
Breaking Out of Prison | p. 95 |
Dealing with Emotional Pain | p. 95 |
The Overlooked Aid for Empowering Yourself: | p. 95 |
The Deadly Rules, Judgements and Expectations | p. 104 |
Making Forgiving Easier | p. 112 |
The Best Strategy for Difficult Situations | p. 114 |
A Technique to Make Forgiveness Go Faster: | p. 114 |
Getting Needs and Wants Met | p. 116 |
The Secret Attitude That Aids Forgiving | p. 117 |
The Overlooked Brain Function | p. 120 |
How to Change Your Inner Experience: | p. 123 |
The Secrets of Forgiveness Work | p. 127 |
The Power behind Forgiving | p. 129 |
The Core of Our Being | p. 129 |
Love and Forgiveness | p. 131 |
Our Healthiest State of Mind | p. 132 |
Real Healing | p. 133 |
How to Empower Yourself and Others | p. 141 |
Working on Upsets | p. 142 |
Vital Steps and Actions to Remember | p. 142 |
The Truth behind the Resistance | p. l47 |
Forgiving Permanently | p. 149 |
Our Mind's Defenses that Prevent Forgiving | p. 153 |
Making Forgiveness Permanent | p. 156 |
Awareness of Defense Mechanisms Is Not Enough | p. 161 |
Stressed Thinking That Sabotages Forgiving | p. 162 |
Self-Forgiveness and Empowerment | p. 167 |
The Keys to Self-Forgiveness | p. 167 |
Guilt, Pain and Punishment | p. 168 |
Dealing with Inner Conflict | p. 169 |
The Cycle of Victimhood and Guilt | p. 173 |
Help in Gaining Self-forgiveness | p. 178 |
Dealing with Stress and Trauma | p. 180 |
The Signs of Stress Overload and Exhaustion | p. 183 |
Pain | p. 185 |
Dealing with Family Burnout | p. 186 |
What Do Trauma Survivors Need to Know? | p. 188 |
Trauma's Long-Term Consequences - PTSD | p. 190 |
Forgiving and PTSD | p. 193 |
Compassion Fatigue | p. 194 |
How and Why Self-Forgiveness Helps | p. 195 |
Trauma and Forgiveness | p. 196 |
Doing the Work | p. 197 |
Successful Preparations | p. 199 |
Review of Secrets & Essentials of Forgiving | p. 202 |
The Principles of Power Forgiveness | p. 204 |
Preparing for the Process | p. 206 |
The Power Forgiveness Process | p. 210 |
Facing the Unforgiven In Your Life | p. 211 |
Working on an Incident | p. 213 |
Transformation | p. 226 |
After the Process | p. 229 |
Continued Healing | p. 231 |
After Deep Change | p. 231 |
The Ultimate Result | p. 243 |
Appendix | p. 251 |
Notes | p. 269 |
Bibliography | p. 273 |
Permissions | p. 281 |
Index | p. 283 |
About the Author | p. 289 |
Signed Book - Order Form | p. 290 |
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