Prorologue: Who Are You? | p. xvii |
The 3-P Model of Identity | p. 1 |
Presentation: The Mirror Image | p. 3 |
Worlds Colliding | p. 5 |
Look Away, Look Over Here | p. 6 |
Mirror, Mirror | p. 9 |
Protection: Exposing the Blind Spots | p. 13 |
The Blind Spots | p. 15 |
The Extent of Violation | p. 15 |
No White Knight | p. 21 |
The Mind-Body-Technology Connection | p. 22 |
Preference: The (Un)Conscious Filter of (In)Finite Choice | p. 25 |
The Power of Experience | p. 29 |
Are You Paying Attention? | p. 31 |
Trust: Meeting at the Crossroads of Identity | p. 37 |
Living in the Intersections | p. 39 |
The Price of Distrust | p. 42 |
The Universal Laws | p. 49 |
The Law of Learned Helplessness: Failure | |
Is the Only Option | p. 51 |
Why Bother? | p. 54 |
A Powerful Antidote | p. 57 |
The Law of Illusion: Lie to Me | p. 63 |
The Threat of Illusory Correlation | p. 65 |
When the System Fails | p. 68 |
Ignorance Is Not Bliss | p. 71 |
The Law of Recall: Taking It from the Top | p. 75 |
Rationalization: Finding Harmony in the Discord | p. 87 |
Rationalizing the Laws | p. 89 |
Do as I Say or as I Do? | p. 91 |
The Laws in Practice | p. 93 |
Identity Through the Life Stages | p. 99 |
Teenage Growing Pains | p. 101 |
The New Status Symbols | p. 103 |
The New Idols | p. 105 |
The New Villains | p. 107 |
The Technology Conundrum | p. 109 |
Emerging Adulthood: In Search of the Ideal | p. 113 |
The "Ideal" Life Stage | p. 115 |
Creeps, Weirdos, and Left-Behinds | p. 117 |
The "Meet" Market | p. 1.25 |
The Laws of Supply and Demand And Attraction | p. 127 |
Endless Opportunities-And Opportunity Costs | p. 131 |
Caveat Emptor (Let the Buyer Beware) | p. 134 |
The Parent Puzzle | p. 139 |
Everything's Different, Nothing's Changed | p. 140 |
Social Development: Exposure or Exclusion? | p. 142 |
To Trust or Protect? | p. 144 |
Analog Parenting in a Digital World | p. 146 |
The Virtual Dashboard | p. 148 |
The Midlife Rebirth | p. 153 |
Yes, I Can | p. 154 |
No, You Can't | p. 157 |
Epilogue: Who Are We Becoming? | p. 163 |
Appendix: Through the Lens of Research | p. 173 |
Citations | p. 189 |
Index | p. 201 |
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