Introduction: Sit Down Before You Read This | p. 1 |
Past, Tense | |
Making Sure Your Past Doesn't Last | p. 13 |
Leaving It All Behind: A Word about Becoming an Adult | p. 27 |
What Have You Done for Me Lately?: A Word about Guilt | p. 32 |
The "Gift" That Keeps On Taking--and Taking: A Word about Anger | p. 39 |
Present Imperfect | |
What You Need to Know about Your Parents | p. 53 |
Your Fantasy Parent Doesn't Live Here Anymore | p. 63 |
The Relief of Having Reasonable Expectations | p. 71 |
The Urge to Merge--and the Need to Diverge | p. 75 |
You Say You Want a Revolution. But Are You Your Own Worst Enemy? | p. 78 |
Seeking a Second Opinion | p. 81 |
Button Up Your Panic Buttons | p. 88 |
Keeping Your Eye on the Prize | p. 97 |
Building Fences 101: The Art of Creating Boundaries | p. 102 |
Getting Your Spouse in Your House | p. 111 |
Role-Playing with the Punches | p. 140 |
Laughing through the Apocalypse | p. 148 |
Making Your Body Say What You Mean | p. 152 |
Toning Down Your Tone of Voice | p. 157 |
Reaching for the Words That Reach Them | p. 162 |
Diversion: Learn to Love the Bait and Switch | p. 169 |
Let Them Be Your Savior--or at Least Think They Are | p. 172 |
Disarm Them with Honesty | p. 177 |
Flatten Them with Flattery | p. 180 |
Future Shock: Troubleshooting the Hotspots | p. 185 |
They Manipulate Me with Health Crises (Real and Imagined) | p. 187 |
They Make Themselves a Little Too Much at Home | p. 201 |
They Don't Like My Spouse ... or That I Don't Have One | p. 211 |
They Are Not There in the Way I Need Them to Be | p. 224 |
They Want Too Much of My Time | p. 232 |
They Are Offended When I Don't Share Personal Details of My Life | p. 238 |
They Put Me in the Middle of Their Marriage (or Divorce) Problems | p. 245 |
They Manage to Slip an Insult into Every Conversation | p. 255 |
They Expect Constant Admiration and Attention | p. 263 |
They Embarrass Me | p. 270 |
They Use Money to Manipulate Me | p. 278 |
They Think I Am a Bad Parent | p. 293 |
Conclusion: A Word about When to Give Up | p. 306 |
Bibliography | p. 308 |
Acknowledgments | p. 310 |
Index | p. 311 |
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