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Acknowledgments | p. xiii |
Contributors | p. xv |
Introduction | p. xvii |
Theoretical Frameworks for Understanding Intercultural Couples | |
A Systems Theory Analysis of Intercultural Couple Relationships | p. 3 |
The Diversity of Intercultural Couple Systems | p. 4 |
The Value of a Comparative Approach | p. 6 |
Ecosystems | p. 7 |
Cultural Differences about Many Things | p. 7 |
Families of Origin in the Couple System | p. 8 |
Gender Relations and Patriarchy in Cultures of Origin | p. 9 |
Being Different from Most or All Surrounding Couples | p. 10 |
Power in the Couple System | p. 11 |
Wealth Differences | p. 11 |
Whose Cultural Territory Are They in? | p. 12 |
Whose Language Is the Language of the Couple's Life? | p. 13 |
Insulation from a Partner's Power | p. 14 |
The Evolving Couple System | p. 15 |
A Lifetime of Unfolding Challenges and Systemic Change | p. 15 |
Life Cycle Events | p. 17 |
Intercultural Couples as Ecosystem for Others around Them | p. 18 |
Conclusion | p. 18 |
References | p. 19 |
Ambiguity as a Solution to the "Problem" of Intercultural Weddings | p. 21 |
Intercultural Weddings | p. 22 |
Case Study | p. 24 |
Conclusion | p. 28 |
Notes | p. 29 |
References | p. 29 |
A Mindful Approach to Managing Conflict in Intercultural Intimate Couples | p. 31 |
A Mindful Approach: Conceptual Bases | p. 31 |
Mindfulness: A Starting Point | p. 32 |
Mindfulness: An Integrative Viewpoint | p. 33 |
Approaching Intercultural-Intimate Conflicts: Invisible Obstacles | p. 34 |
Individualism-Collectivism Value Dimension | p. 35 |
Different Expectations on Love | p. 38 |
Different Expectations on Autonomy-Connection | p. 39 |
Communication Decoding Problems | p. 39 |
Understanding Cultural/Ethnic Identity Issues: Extending Identity Support | p. 42 |
Ethnic Identity Conceptualization and Identity Support | p. 43 |
Conclusion | p. 45 |
Author Note | p. 47 |
References | p. 47 |
Examining Prevalent Assumptions about Intercultural Relationships | |
"I Always Wanted to Marry a Cowboy": Bilingual Couples, Language, and Desire | p. 53 |
Bilingualism and Romantic Desire | p. 54 |
Language Desire | p. 57 |
A Bilingual Relationship as a "Way in" | p. 58 |
A Desire to Raise Bilingual Children | p. 62 |
Conclusion | p. 66 |
Notes | p. 67 |
References | p. 67 |
Transcription Conventions | p. 70 |
The Luckiest Girls in the World | p. 71 |
Arranged Marriage | p. 72 |
Jessie's Story | p. 75 |
Polygamy | p. 78 |
Lauren's Story | p. 81 |
Conclusion | p. 85 |
References | p. 87 |
"We're Just a Couple of People": An Exploration of Why Some Black-White Couples Reject the Terms Cross-Cultural and Interracial | p. 89 |
A Theory of Metaphor | p. 90 |
Categories as Containers | p. 91 |
Interracial and Cross-Cultural as Metaphors | p. 91 |
What Is Highlighted by Cross-Cultural? | p. 93 |
Culture as a Physical Location | p. 93 |
Relationships within the Cultural Location | p. 96 |
What Is Obscured by Cross-Cultural? | p. 97 |
Shared American Culture | p. 97 |
Asymmetrical Racial Categories | p. 98 |
The Dominance of Whiteness | p. 99 |
Asymmetrical Racial and Ethnic Identities | p. 100 |
Border Patrolling: The Difficulty of Crossing Racial Boundaries | p. 101 |
Why Some Black-White Couples Reject Cross-Cultural and Interracial | p. 102 |
Rejecting or Challenging Categorization | p. 102 |
Rjecting an Emphasis on Power Relations | p. 104 |
Rejecting Interracial Because It Doesn't Fit Their Experiences | p. 105 |
Rejecting an Emphasis on Homogeneity | p. 106 |
Rejecting Uncomfortable Racial Realities | p. 107 |
Conclusion | p. 107 |
References | p. 108 |
Electronic Attachments: Desire, the Other, and the Internet Marital Trade in the 21st Century | p. 111 |
Cyberspatial (Re)Presentations and Seductions: The Internet as Contested Border of Social Relations and Governance | p. 112 |
The Internet: Borderless Site of the Neoliberal "Free Market"? | p. 113 |
Disruptions of Worlds and Intimacies: Technologies of Social Relations | p. 118 |
Crossings and Intimacies: International Dating and Electronic Exchanges | p. 121 |
Seductions and Simulations: Borders, Bodies, and Other Sites of Contestation? | p. 122 |
International Coupling and International Border Crossings as Contradictions | p. 136 |
Conclusion | p. 137 |
Notes | p. 139 |
References | p. 140 |
Particular Cultural Combinations | |
Russian-American Marriages: Cultures and Conflicts | p. 147 |
Historical Background | p. 147 |
American Men Seek Russian Brides | p. 149 |
American Men and Russian Women | p. 153 |
Disappointments and Disasters | p. 155 |
American Husbands and Russian Wives | p. 157 |
Russian Husbands and American Wives | p. 159 |
Different Types of Couples | p. 160 |
Causes of Conflict | p. 162 |
Friends and Family | p. 162 |
References | p. 164 |
Constructions of Difference Among Latino/Latina Immigrant and Non-Hispanic White Couples | p. 167 |
Marrying a Latino or Latina in the United States | p. 168 |
Latinos in the United States: Who Are They? | p. 169 |
Constructions of Difference in Relational Contexts | p. 172 |
Differing Clans and Conceptions of Family: Nuclear vs. Extended Family | p. 174 |
Immigration: The Couple as the United Nations | p. 175 |
Emerging Themes in the Life Cycle: The Discovery of New Meanings of Difference | p. 176 |
Courtship Differences and Family Responses to Dating | p. 177 |
Differences between Traditional Latino Courtships and More Liberal American Dating Practices | p. 177 |
Personal and Family Fears Based on Stereotypes | p. 177 |
Marriage: The Newlyweds | p. 180 |
Becoming a New Unit: The Ongoing Negotiation of Cultural and Family Boundaries | p. 181 |
Communication and Interaction Styles | p. 182 |
Language | p. 183 |
Raising Children | p. 183 |
Conclusion | p. 184 |
Note | p. 185 |
References | p. 185 |
Asian Indians in Intercultural Marriages: Intersections of Acculturation, Gender, and Exogamy | p. 189 |
History and Demographics | p. 190 |
Statistics on Intermarriage | p. 191 |
Understanding Asian Indian Families | p. 192 |
Family Structure and Dynamics | p. 192 |
Collectivism | p. 193 |
Hierarchy | p. 194 |
Revisiting Acculturation | p. 194 |
Couples of Asian Indian Origin: A Focus on Acculturation and Gender | p. 195 |
Asian Indians in Interracial Relationships | p. 200 |
Conclusion | p. 203 |
References | p. 204 |
Bridges Crossed, Paths Traveled: Muslim Intercultural Couples | p. 207 |
Reactions to Interfaith Marriage | p. 208 |
Religious and Community Resources for Interfaith Couples | p. 209 |
Stages of Marital Transition | p. 210 |
The Honeymoon Phase | p. 210 |
The Setting-In Phase | p. 210 |
The Life-Pattern Phase | p. 213 |
Challenges for Muslim Intercultural Couples | p. 214 |
Belief System and Values | p. 214 |
Gender Relationships | p. 214 |
Time Orientations | p. 216 |
Political Views | p. 217 |
Economics and Financial Issues | p. 217 |
Extended Family Relationships | p. 218 |
Socioeconomic and Class Status | p. 219 |
Spirituality and Religion | p. 220 |
Children and the Family's Multicultural Context | p. 221 |
Problem-Solving, Language, and Communication | p. 222 |
Health and Stress | p. 223 |
Guidelines for Better Connections and Happier Relationships | p. 224 |
Prerequisites for Permanent Commitment | p. 226 |
Muslim Intercultural Couples' Incentives | p. 226 |
Conclusion | p. 227 |
References | p. 228 |
U.S./Caribbean Couples: Perspectives from Caribbean Psychology and Mainstream Social Psychology | p. 229 |
Interpersonal Relationships in Caribbean Psychology | p. 230 |
Blacks in Jamaica and White Americans | p. 231 |
Black Caribbean Immigrants and Black Americans | p. 234 |
Social Exchange in Relationships | p. 236 |
Summary | p. 238 |
Accommodation in Personal Relationships | p. 239 |
Cultural Values as Individual Difference Influences on Accommodation | p. 240 |
Within-Couple Differences in the Impact of Cultural Values on Accommodation Among U.S./Caribbean Couples | p. 241 |
Potential Influences of Socioeconomic Status, Race, and Nationality on the Impact of Cultural Values on Accommodation among U.S./Caribbean Couples | p. 244 |
Summary | p. 246 |
Beyond Exchange and Interdependence Theories: Results of Initial Research on U.S./Caribbean Relationships | p. 246 |
Conclusion | p. 247 |
Notes | p. 248 |
References | p. 249 |
Author Note | p. 251 |
Index | p. 253 |
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