There Was and There Was Not A Journey Through Hate and Possibility in Turkey, Armenia, and Beyond

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  • Copyright: 2015-11-03
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A young Armenian-American goes to Turkey in a "love thine enemy" experiment that becomes a transformative reflection on how we use—and abuse—our personal histories

Meline Toumani grew up in a close-knit Armenian community in New Jersey where Turkish restaurants were shunned and products made in Turkey were boycotted. The source of this enmity was the Armenian genocide of 1915 at the hands of the Ottoman Turkish government, and Turkey's refusal to acknowledge it. A century onward, Armenian and Turkish lobbies spend hundreds of millions of dollars to convince governments, courts and scholars of their clashing versions of history.

Frustrated by her community's all-consuming campaigns for genocide recognition, Toumani leaves a promising job at The New York Times and moves to Istanbul. Instead of demonizing Turks, she sets out to understand them, and in a series of extraordinary encounters over the course of four years, she tries to talk about the Armenian issue, finding her way into conversations that are taboo and sometimes illegal. Along the way, we get a snapshot of Turkish society in the throes of change, and an intimate portrait of a writer coming to terms with the issues that drove her halfway across the world.

In this far-reaching quest, told with eloquence and power, Toumani probes universal questions: how to belong to a community without conforming to it, how to acknowledge a tragedy without exploiting it, and most importantly how to remember a genocide without perpetuating the kind of hatred that gave rise to it in the first place.

Author Biography

Meline Toumani</b> has written extensively for <i>The New York Times</i> on Turkey and Armenia as well as on music, dance, and film. Her work has also appeared in <i>n+1</i>, <i>The Nation</i>, <i>Salon</i>, and <i>The Boston Globe</i>. A journalism fellow at the Institute for Human Sciences in Vienna, Austria, she was also the coordinator of the Russian-American Journalism Institute in Rostov-on-Don, Russia. Born in Iran and ethnically Armenian, she grew up in New Jersey and California and now lives in New York City.</p>

Table of Contents

Map xii
Notes on Language xv

Part One: Diaspora
1. When We Talk About What Happened 3
2. Summer Camp, Franklin, Massachusetts, 1989 11
3. "How Did Th ey Kill Your Grandparents?" 21
4. A Real Armenian 37
5. False Assumptions 53
6. "With Th is Madness, What Art Could Th ere Be?" 61

Part Two: Alternate Realities
7. "So You Are a Bit Mixed Up Now" 73
8. "Armenians Are Killers of Children" 97
9. January 19, 2007 103

Part Three: Turkey
10. Paradoxes 113
11. Language 129
12. Knowing and Not Knowing 141
13. How to Be a Turk 155
14. Offi cial History 167

Part Four: Armenia
15. Country on Maps 191
16. Hello, Homeland! 205
17. Reunions 221

Part Five: Power
18. Th e Narcissism of Small Similarities 233
19. Excess Baggage 245
20. Soccer Diplomacy 255
21. Terms 271

Acknowledgments 281
A Note on Sources and Selected Bibliography 285

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