Is there freedom? Can we choose how to exercise it? What are the fears, guilt, and mandates that prevent us from reaching this balance? Faced with these fundamental questions, Pilar Sordo proposes a journey within ourselves to make use of the most basic human right, which is to become what we really are. From a gender perspective and from the analysis of the current feminist movement, we will reflect on how to deprogram all that we were taught to find a personal, unique, and non-transferable formula to find our freedom. Although we will face various obstacles along the way, we will be able to continue to discover and express our identity in a freer way and with less fear and prejudice. The path to achieving the freedom to be who we are will make us men and women with less ties and with a greater ethical awareness of the life we ??lead.