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Preface: The Secret of Lifescripts | xvii | ||||
Introduction: Why Is It So Hard for Us to Talk to One Another? | xxi | ||||
A Word on Gender | xxvii | ||||
part 1 Lifescripts for talking to parents | |||||
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part 2 Lifescripts for siblings | |||||
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part 3 Lifescripts for talking to children | |||||
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part 4 Lifescripts for talking to adult children | |||||
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part 5 Lifescripts for spouses | |||||
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part 6 Lifescripts for friends | |||||
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strategy
No parent wants to hand over the keys to the car once and for all. To do so not only limits their mobility but serves as a not-too-gentle reminder that as they age they will have to depend more and more on others to do the things they used to be able to do for themselves. It can leave them feeling demeaned and demoralized, as if they're little kids who have just had their favorite toys taken away. So when you think it might be in a parent's best interest to stop driving, try to do so by emphasizing three things. First, you're not drawing your own conclusion about his ability to drive, you're simply asking that he consult his doctor. Second, you're not accusing him of driving poorly, you're merely observing that it may be getting more difficult to steer clear of drivers who do. And third, you're acknowledging his need to maintain his active life and reinforcing the idea that there are other ways to ensure that he'll always be able to get around town with ease.
tactics
adaptations
This lifescript can be adapted to suggest to a parent that he should no longer be preparing his own meals, or that he should consider having part-time home health care.
key points
Copyright © 2002 by Third Millennium Press, Inc., Erik Kolbell and Stephen M. Pollan