Modern Couples?: Continuity and Change in Heterosexual Relationships

by Hooff,Jenny van

• ISBN13: 9781409439134
• ISBN10: 1409439135
• Format: Hardcover
• Copyright: 2013-01-08
• Publisher: Routledge

Summary

Have heterosexual relationships become more intimate and equal over the past forty years? Simply put, this is the central question underpinning this book. Within the context of late modern social processes, including most notably individualisation and detraditionalisation, theorists have come to focus on a posited transformation of personal relationships. This has culminated in a sociological debate over the nature of contemporary relationships, with optimists such as Giddens and Beck celebrating the emergence of an intimacy based on personal satisfaction rather than traditional obligations. Authors including Bauman and Lasch reject this interpretation, and instead lament what they consider to be the destruction of commitment and community and the demoralisation of personal relationships by the rise of individualism and consumerism. While these two entrenched positions have dominated the debate, a third, marginalised perspective has emerged, which questions the extent to which contemporary relationships have become detraditionalised, and emphasises evidence of continuing gender inequalities. This book is essentially a qualitative empirical investigation of the changes and continuities posited within the debate, which evaluates existing work and details the findings of Van Hooff's research into the relationships of two generations of heterosexual couples. It provides the reader with a grounded interpretation of the evidence, questioning to what extent lived reality has matched the rhetoric within the majority of contemporary relationships.