Rekindling Romance For Dummies

by Walter, Sabine; Lehu, Pierre A.

• ISBN13: 9780764553035
• ISBN10: 0764553038
• Edition: 1st
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2000-12-28
• Publisher: For Dummies

Summary

"Her energy level is higher than a charged particle." -People"Her manner is down-to-earth and reassuring.... She tries to make people feel better, value themselves, trust their instincts." -Ladies' Home JournalIn today's world of instant gratification people have lost the knack for keeping romance alive. Rather than take the time to rekindle the flame that once burned so brightly, we let the fire die out, thinking we'll find something more lasting with someone else. Often, the result is that we find ourselves repeating the same pattern over and over again or giving up on romance altogether. But true romance never really dies it only goes into hibernation, waiting for somebody to wake it up.Are you bored with your relationship? Does your love life seem routine? Don't throw in the towel! Let "Americas star sexologist" (TV Guide), Dr. Ruth Westheimer shows you how to inspire a romantic Renaissance in your relationship. With the help of self-exams and easy exercises, she shows you how to: Rate the romance in your relationship Renew respect and commitment Spice up your sex life Find time for Romance in everyday situations Plan a romantic getawayFull of straight-talk about real-life relationship issues and peppered with helpful and inspiring anecdotes from her years couples counseling, Rekindling Romance For Dummies helps you: Find the sources of stress in your relationship and address them constructively Discover the importance of communication in overcoming potential sore spots Understand the roles that conflict and mutual respect play in a successful relationship Use proven techniques for strengthening your relationship, including renewal ceremonies, romantic escapes, and more Overcome boredom and insecurity in the bedroom and supercharge your sex-life together, well into your golden years Work through common stresses that can afflict romance, including financial conflict, pregnancy, and childrearing Recognize how common medical problems can impact the state of your relationship and know when to seek professional helpDon't let a good thing fade away. Let Dr. Ruth show you how to "embrace the art of romance" and keep the fire burning in your relationship.

Author Biography

Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer, a practicing therapist and adjunct professor at New York University, has written 18 books and appears frequently in the media. Pierre Lehu has been Dr. Ruth's "Minister of Communications" since 1981.

Table of Contents

Introduction	1	(6)
Part I: How to Win Your Mate All Over Again	7	(56)
How Does Your Relationship Rate? A Self-Assessment	9	(10)
Say It and Show It: Improving Communication	19	(14)
Conquering Conflict	33	(18)
Renewing Respect	51	(12)
Part II: Inspiring a Romantic Revival	63	(56)
The Art of Romance: Keeping Love Fresh	65	(14)
Taking Commitment to a Higher Level	79	(14)
Renewing Your Marriage Vows	93	(8)
Getting Away from It All: Romantic Getaways	101	(18)
Part III: Heating Up Your Sex Life	119	(48)
Rethinking Your Approach to Sex	121	(14)
Feeling Attractive: Be Sexy, You're Worth It	135	(12)
Let's Get Physical: Exercises to Improve Your Sex Life	147	(10)
Great Sex in Your Senior Years	157	(10)
Part IV: Romancing Real Life	167	(84)
Finding the Romance in Pregnancy	169	(12)
Managing Romance with Parenthood: From Infants to Teens	181	(16)
Heating Up the Empty Nest	197	(10)
Working Too Hard for Romance?	207	(14)
Romancing Financial Difficulties	221	(14)
Rescuing Romance from Life's Hardships	235	(16)
Part V: Troubleshooting Your Love Life	251	(44)
Navigating Common Traps and Pitfalls: TV to the Internet	253	(16)
When the Two of You Can't Make It Alone: Going for Therapy	269	(14)
Medical Matters: When You May Need to See a Doctor	283	(12)
Part VI: The Part of Tens	295	(30)
Ten Romantic Getaways Sure to Create a Spark	297	(8)
Ten Great Ways to Date Your Mate	305	(8)
Ten New Twists on Your Everyday Sex Life	313	(6)
Ten Romantic Web Sites	319	(6)
Index	325