List of Figures | p. xiii |
Preface: It Is Never Too Late | p. xv |
Acknowledgments | p. xvii |
Introduction to Overcoming Problem Patterns | p. 1 |
Recognizing Powerful Pattern Addictions Around And Within Us | p. 5 |
Survival and Counter-Survival | p. 7 |
Survival? | p. 8 |
Gratification? | p. 8 |
The Problem of the Problem Addiction Industry | p. 11 |
Example: The Matter of Stimulants Such As Cocaine and Meth | p. 12 |
Example: Legal and Illegal Opioids | p. 12 |
Example: The Question of Right Use As Per Cannabis | p. 13 |
Age at First Use | p. 13 |
Always Emerging Addictions | p. 14 |
Altered States of Consciousness (ASCs) | p. 14 |
Example: Addiction to Legal Drugs Such As Smoking and Coffee Drinking | p. 15 |
Are There Levels of Acceptable Use? | p. 15 |
Example: Prescription Drugs and Even Household Substances | p. 16 |
Nondrug Addictions | p. 17 |
The Problem Addiction Industry | p. 17 |
Overarching Problem Conditions: Chemicalization and Mechanization | p. 19 |
Overarching Addiction Condition One: Chemicalization | p. 19 |
Overarching Addiction Condition Two: Mechanization | p. 20 |
Problem States of Mind: Addictive Materialism and Addictive Inadequacy | p. 23 |
Addictive Materialism | p. 23 |
Addictive Inadequacy | p. 24 |
These Addictions Apply to All of Us | p. 25 |
Creatures of Habitual Addiction | p. 27 |
Automatic Behavior All Around and Within | p. 27 |
Parallels between Drug and Nondrug Addictions | p. 28 |
Example: Food Addiction | p. 30 |
Example: Shopping/Spending Addiction | p. 31 |
Example: Work Addiction | p. 32 |
Key Realities | p. 33 |
Creatures of Pleasure and Stimulation | p. 39 |
The Compelling Pleasure Pathway | p. 39 |
Example: Alcohol and Beta-Endorphine Craving | p. 40 |
Pleasure and Relief from Pain and Discomfort As Pleasure | p. 41 |
Example: Consider Heroin and Morphine Withdrawals | p. 42 |
Tolerance and Diminishing Returns | p. 42 |
Example: Commonplace Caffeine Addiction | p. 43 |
Example: The Smoking Gun of Nicotine Addiction | p. 45 |
Nondrug Addiction Stimulation of Pleasure Pathways | p. 46 |
Example: Food, Sex, and Runaway Dimensions of Our Coding | p. 46 |
Continued Use and Engagement | p. 47 |
When Good Judgment Falls by the Wayside | p. 49 |
When Good Judgment Is Not Working | p. 50 |
Wise and Right Use of Decision-Making Ability | p. 50 |
Decision Making Is Central | p. 52 |
Making a Good Decision Is a Process | p. 53 |
Decision Making and Problem Solving: The How | p. 54 |
Matters Here | p. 54 |
With Maturity Can Come Better Decision-Making Processes, But When Is Maturity? | p. 55 |
The Greater Good | p. 55 |
Addiction and Excessive Consumption In Excess | p. 57 |
Several Types of Excess | p. 58 |
The Consumption Trap | p. 59 |
Recognizing Our Powerful Inner Coding To Be Pattern-Addicted | p. 63 |
Our Rigid Yet Paradoxical Addictions to What We See As Reality | p. 65 |
We Can Even Resist Healing Change | p. 65 |
Our Rigid Yet Paradoxical Addiction to the Patterned State Itself | p. 66 |
The Tug of Choice | p. 67 |
Explicit and Implicit Addictions | p. 68 |
Hidden Implicit Patterning | p. 69 |
Underlying Source Patterning to be Addicted to a Reality | p. 70 |
Underlying Source Patterning Driving All Addictions | p. 73 |
Survival Relies on This Programming | p. 73 |
Risk and Stimulation As Triggers for Gambling and Gambling with Life | p. 74 |
Slaves to Attentional Bias | p. 77 |
Attentional Bias Programming | p. 78 |
Conscious Attention to Triggers | p. 80 |
Bad Learnings | p. 81 |
Triggers Themselves May Induce Highs | p. 82 |
Degraded Decision-Making Functioning | p. 83 |
Go and No-Go | p. 83 |
Action Selecting and Inhibiting | p. 84 |
Compromised Thinking and Situation Responsivity | p. 87 |
Situations, Situations, Situations | p. 87 |
Executive Control | p. 88 |
Action Selection Decisions Respond to Situations | p. 89 |
The Importance Of Promoting Situational Transcendence | p. 91 |
The Case for Situational Transcendence | p. 93 |
Situation Dependence and Situation Restriction | p. 94 |
Addiction-Specific Situations | p. 95 |
Patterns of Progression into Problem Addiction Situations | p. 97 |
Casual to Regular | p. 98 |
Regular to Troubled | p. 99 |
Troubled to Addicted | p. 100 |
Descent into Detrimental Pattern Addiction | p. 101 |
The Freeing and Right Use of Our Energy | p. 101 |
Achieving Situational Transcendence | p. 117 |
Condition One: Commitment | p. 118 |
Condition Two: Attention | p. 121 |
Condition Three: Fortitude | p. 124 |
Condition Four: Faith | p. 125 |
Conditions for Situational Transcendence | p. 126 |
Phases of Situational Transcendence | p. 129 |
Phase Characteristics | p. 129 |
Struggle | p. 130 |
Paradox | p. 131 |
Insight | p. 133 |
Elevation | p. 134 |
Life Phases and Patterns | p. 136 |
No One's Life Pattern Is Written in Stone | p. 138 |
Foundations of Situational Transcendence of Addiction | p. 139 |
Idea 1 | p. 139 |
Idea 2 | p. 140 |
Idea 3 | p. 140 |
Idea 4 | p. 140 |
Idea 5 | p. 140 |
Idea 6 | p. 141 |
Idea 7 | p. 141 |
Conducting Lifestyle Surgery | p. 143 |
Lifestyle Surgery: Breaking Addiction | p. 145 |
The Reaching Hand | p. 146 |
Overcoming Programming | p. 148 |
Doing Something New | p. 148 |
Elements of Addictive Patterning Cycle | p. 149 |
Overcoming Resistance to Change | p. 149 |
Dictionary of Triggers | p. 151 |
Problem Area One: Practical Triggers | p. 152 |
Problem Area Two: Temporal Triggers | p. 152 |
Problem Area Three: Environmental Triggers | p. 153 |
Problem Area Four: Media Triggers | p. 153 |
Problem Area Five: Emotional Triggers | p. 154 |
Problem Area Six: Spiritual Triggers | p. 155 |
Problem Area Seven: Social Triggers | p. 155 |
Problem Area Eight: Physical Triggers | p. 156 |
Problem Area Nine: Nutritional Triggers | p. 156 |
Problem Area Ten: Chemical Triggers | p. 157 |
Trigger Charting: Seeing the Addiction Process | p. 159 |
Mapping Addiction | p. 159 |
Ongoing Charting | p. 164 |
Life Management Planning | p. 167 |
A Life Management Plan | p. 168 |
Knowing Addiction | p. 183 |
Addiction As a Family and Social System Affair | p. 185 |
Chemical Dependence | p. 186 |
Haven in a Heartless World? | p. 187 |
The Symptoms and Effects of Family Drug Problems | p. 188 |
Lies | p. 189 |
Communication Breakdowns | p. 191 |
Grudge Developments | p. 192 |
Hurts | p. 193 |
Familial Co-Addictions | p. 194 |
Practical Difficulties And Simple Catastrophes | p. 195 |
Protecting the Children of Our Patterns | p. 197 |
Carriers of Patterns? | p. 197 |
Teaching Denial | p. 198 |
Harsh and Painful Reality | p. 198 |
Children Have a Right to This Information | p. 199 |
Conflict of Interests Fading Heart | p. 200 |
When "Love" or What Appears As Love Is Too Much | p. 203 |
Why "Love" Is Relevant to Drug and Other Addictions-Which We Also Think We Love | p. 204 |
Checkpoints along the Path to Violence | p. 206 |
Tolerance Can Be Dangerous | p. 206 |
Conflicting Experience | p. 207 |
Establishing and Maintaining Healthy Patterns | p. 208 |
Love? | p. 209 |
Habits Sneak Up on Us | p. 210 |
Running into Someone's Arms, Anyone's | p. 210 |
Emotional Sadomasochism | p. 210 |
Like Is Too Simple a Word for Love or Drug Addictions | p. 212 |
When Relationships Like Drugs Kill | p. 213 |
Rethinking Recovery As Discovery | p. 215 |
Limitations in Our Thinking | p. 215 |
Rethinking Addiction | p. 218 |
Suggesting the Discovery Model | p. 219 |
A Note About Synaptic Rights | p. 223 |
The Synapse | p. 223 |
Mental Chemistry | p. 224 |
Addicting the Brain | p. 225 |
The Other Face | p. 227 |
Epilogue: Calling for Complete Overhaul | p. 229 |
Substance Addiction As an Example | p. 231 |
The Choicepoint | p. 231 |
Overhaul Is Key to Healing Pattern Affliction | p. 233 |
Bibliography | p. 235 |
Index | p. 267 |
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