Richard Templar is the author of international bestsellers The Rules of Money, The Rules of Work, The Rules of Management, The Rules of Life, and The Rules of Parenting.
Introduction | p. xii |
Rules for Finding Love | p. 1 |
Be Yourself | p. 4 |
Get Over It Before You Get on with It | p. 5 |
You Won't Be Happy with a Partner Until You Can Be Happy on Your Own | p. 8 |
You'll Know Them When You Meet Them | p. 10 |
Choose Someone Who Makes You Laugh | p. 12 |
Being Less than a Hundred Percent Attractive Is a Great Filter | p. 14 |
Don't Keep Making the Same Mistakes | p. 16 |
Certain People Are Off Limits (You Know Who They Are) | p. 18 |
You Can't Change People | p. 20 |
Relationships Aren't About Sex | p. 22 |
You Should Know Someone Through All the Seasons Before You Make Any Major Decisions | p. 24 |
Don't Stay with Someone Who Doesn't Care | p. 26 |
If You Can't Trust Them, You Haven't Got a Relationship | p. 28 |
Be Honest (While You Still Have the Chance) | p. 30 |
Don't Play Games | p. 32 |
Don't Paint New Partners with Old Brushes | p. 34 |
Make Sure You Both Have the Same Shared Goals | p. 36 |
You Can't Make Someone Love You | p. 38 |
Be Cruel to Be Kind | p. 40 |
Rules of Relationships | p. 43 |
Be Nice | p. 46 |
Be Together Because You Want to, Not Because You Need To | p. 48 |
Allow Your Partner the Space to Be Themselves | p. 50 |
Look to Your Own Faults | p. 52 |
Be Honorable | p. 54 |
Put Each Other First | p. 56 |
Recognize the Signs | p. 58 |
Be a Hero--or a Heroine | p. 60 |
Accept the Differences, Embrace What You Have in Common | p. 62 |
Houston, We Have a Problem | p. 64 |
You Want to Do What? | p. 66 |
Let Not the Sun Go Down Upon Your Wrath | p. 68 |
Be the First to Say Sorry | p. 70 |
Don't Belittle Your Partner | p. 72 |
Don't Put Them on a Pedestal and Expect Them to Stay There | p. 74 |
Don't Dump Responsibility on Your Partner | p. 76 |
Never Stop Trying to Be Attractive | p. 78 |
If You Can Say Anything Nice, Do | p. 80 |
Don't Try to Be Their Parent | p. 82 |
Don't Be a Nag | p. 84 |
If Little Things Annoy You, Say So--with Humor | p. 86 |
Go that Extra Step in Trying to Please Them | p. 88 |
Make Sure Your Partner Is Always Pleased to See You | p. 90 |
Know When to Listen and When to Act | p. 92 |
Let Them Know If You Don't Like Their Friends | p. 94 |
Jealousy Is Your Stuff, Not Theirs | p. 96 |
Your Partner Is More Important than Your Kids | p. 98 |
Make Time for Romance | p. 100 |
Have a Passion for Your Life Together | p. 102 |
Share the Workload | p. 104 |
Trust the Other One to Do the Job | p. 106 |
Be Part of Their Life | p. 108 |
Make Sure Your Love Making Is Making Love | p. 110 |
Don't Control Them | p. 112 |
Listen to What They're Not Saying | p. 114 |
Most Everyday Arguments Are About Something Else | p. 116 |
Respect Privacy | p. 118 |
Treat Your Partner Better than Your Best Friend | p. 120 |
Don't Be Offended If They Want Some Space | p. 122 |
Men Like Flowers, Too | p. 124 |
Keep Your Finances Separate | p. 126 |
Contentment Is a High Aim | p. 128 |
Be Generous to Each Other Financially | p. 130 |
You Make a Choice Every Day | p. 132 |
Don't' Be a Martyr | p. 134 |
You Don't Both Have to Have the Same Rules | p. 136 |
Put Yourself in Their Shoes | p. 138 |
In-Laws Are Part of the Package | p. 140 |
Keep Talking | p. 142 |
Rules of Parting | p. 145 |
Listen to Your Own Internal Voice | p. 148 |
Recognize That It Takes Two | p. 150 |
eep the Moral High Ground | p. 152 |
Don't Keep Reliving It Over and Over | p. 154 |
Leave the Kids Out of It | p. 156 |
Rules for Family | p. 159 |
Don't Blame Your Parents | p. 162 |
Don't Let Your Parents Control Your Feelings | p. 164 |
Your Children Come Before You | p. 166 |
Nothing Is Worth Falling Out Over | p. 168 |
Treat Them the Way You Believe Is Right, No Matter How They Treat You | p. 170 |
Don't Pressure Your Family Just Because You Can | p. 172 |
Never Be Too Busy for Loved Ones | p. 174 |
Your Children Need to Fall Out with You to Leave Home | p. 176 |
They Don't Have to Be the Same as You | p. 178 |
There's Always Stuff with Siblings | p. 180 |
Let Go of Your Role | p. 182 |
ules of Friendship | p. 185 |
There Are No Rules | p. 188 |
Your Best Friend Was Once a Stranger | p. 190 |
Only Have People in Your Life Who Make It Better, Not Worse | p. 192 |
If You're Going to Be a Friend, Be a Good Friend | p. 194 |
Never Give Advice | p. 196 |
Find Friends Who Love the Truth | p. 198 |
Never Lend Money Unless You're Prepared to Write It Off | p. 200 |
If You Don't Like Their Partner, Tough | p. 202 |
When One Finger Points Forward, Three Point Back | p. 204 |
Friendships Change | p. 206 |
Know When to Let Go | p. 208 |
Bitterness Helps No One | p. 210 |
Rules for Everyone | p. 213 |
Guilt Is a Selfish Emotion | p. 216 |
Love Equals Time | p. 218 |
The More You Give, the More You Get Back | p. 220 |
Other People Are Where It's At | p. 222 |
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