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A Safe Place for Dangerous Truths

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    9780814404799

  • ISBN10:

    0814404790

  • Format: Hardcover
  • Copyright: 1999-05-01
  • Publisher: Amacom Books
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Summary

"No more ""checking for feet."" This illuminating guide gets people to tell the truth at the meeting--not in the bathroom afterwards. Almost everybody does it--lie, that is. In one recent survey 93% of people admitted to lying regularly at work! Why? Because it's safer than telling the truth. Sadly, organizations cannot succeed in this poisonous world of half-truths, strategic omissions, and doctored information. To function optimally, businesses must create an environment where people feel free to tell the truth, no matter how disturbing. Only then can organizations unleash the responsiveness, creativity, and enthusiasm necessary to achieve their goals. This unique book shows how, using the formal process of ""dialogue,"" such a place can be built. In a lively discussion, the author shows managers how to use this technique to encourage truth-telling by reducing fear, prompting self-examination, and opening minds * build trust where suspicion and cynicism held sway * inspire individuals to think and learn as a group * help groups talk through tough issues and move to collaborative action."

Author Biography

ANNETTE SIMMONS (Greensboro, NC) is president of Group Process Consulting, a behavioral science firm that specializes in building cooperation within organizations to enhance bottom-line results. She is the author of Territorial Games (AMACOM).

Table of Contents

Acknowledgements xi
Introduction xiii
PART 1: Dialogue Defined
Why Dialogue?
3(12)
Shooting in the Dark
Thinking New Thoughts
The ``Real Problem''
Dialogue Skills for Dangerous Truths
Learning Schmearning
Reengineering Communication
If People Were Cows
Collective Learning Disabilities
Coherence
Group Self-Awareness
Collective Introspection
Shared Action
How Hard Can It Be?
15(12)
What's the Big ``D''?
finding a Choir to Preach To
Selling Dialogue
Go Big Picture and Benefits
Remember a Time When
A Credible Process
Mapping the Mental Terrain
Making Dialogue User-Friendly
The Five Stages of Dialogue
27(18)
Group Dynamics 101
Conflict as a Raw Material to Innovation
A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words
Form, Storm, Norm, and Perform With a Developmental Twist
False Clarity
When the Group Doesn't Wanna Go There
45(24)
Expanding Personal Responsibility
Resistance Is Natural
Sounds Like a Personal Problem
Paths of Least Resistance
The Four Group Escape Strategies
The ``Flight'' Avoidance Strategy
The ``Fight'' Avoidance Strategy
The ``Pairing'' Avoidance Strategy
The ``Dependency'' Avoidance Strategy
When the Ego Doesn't Wanna Hear It
Developing Mental Agility
The Four Individual Escape Strategies
Tenacity
Factumptionism
Reductionism
Distancing
Brain Training
PART 2: With All That Going Against You: The How-To's of Dialogue
Before You Begin
69(10)
cornfield and a Shotgun
Can't Make `Em Drink
Thirsty?
speed Kills
Quality Can Be Inconvenient
Being There
It Takes How Long?
What Are We Going to Discuss?
It's All in the Setup
79(12)
Setting the Climate
A Safe Place for Dangerous Truths
Dare We Hope?
Raise the Bar
I'm In
I'll Drive
Where Is It That We Are Going?
Smorgasbord of Rules
Their Process, Not Yours
The Goal
91(12)
Faith
Soft Eyes
The Basic Group Skills of Dialogue
The Ability to See Judgments
Heretical Thinking
Curiosity to Hear Opposite Views
Personal Responsibility
Structure for an Unstructured Process
103(14)
The Basics
rounds
Psychological Silence
Intervention of Awareness
Intervention to Facilitate New Skills
Silence
Stories
Bringiong It to Closure
The Balance
PART 3: Building Blocks: Seven Basic Facilitator Skills
Taking the Pulse of the Group
117(10)
Background Material Will Make You Go Blind
Who Are You?
Process, Not Content
Hell-l-l-o-o-o?
Flexibility
Find Their Desire
Taking Responsibility to Not Take Responsibility
127(10)
Retooling Basic Expectations
Creating a Vacuum of Responsibility (or Sucking Them In)
Helping Things ``Get Our of Hand''
Don't Become a Load-Bearing Wall
Being a Good Lifeguard
The culture of dependence
Accountability of Another Kind
Mind-Sets and Preempts
137(10)
Theory of Dissipative Structures
Giving Ego a Job
Without Pointing Fingers
Let Them Make the Connection
``This Way ⇒ to dialogue'' Signs
Choosing Mind-Sets
Now or Never
The Socratic Method
147(12)
Socrates---More Than One Voice
Don't Give Them Fish---Help Them Learn How to Fish
A Midwife Assists
Experience Is the Best Teacher
Hiding From Reality
The Wrong Questions
Awakening Perplexity
Asking Good Questions
Finding the Spirit of Inquiry
Believe They Can Do It
Awaken the Desire
Let Them discover Their Barriers
Avoiding the Hemlock Response
Egoless-ness
159(10)
How to Become Unnecessary
The Seduction of Being in Front of the Room
In the Presence of Your Equals
Body Language
Don't Hold That Thought
Cockiness: An Early Warning System
The Fear of Looking Uninvolved, Uninterested, or Unimportant
Common Ego Trip-Ups
Storytelling
169(12)
When Nothing Else Can Break Through
A Common Experience
Dangerous Truths
Stories That Stimulate Introspection
Developmental Stages
Oral Language
The Magic of ``Irrelevant Detail''
The Greatest Sin: a Boring Story
The Power of Stories
Modeling
181(8)
Walk Your Talk
Facilitte Yourself
But Didn't You Just Say...?
Let Me ``See''?
From Either/Or to Both/And
When You Screw Up
Dialogue in the Real World
189(12)
You Can't Have a Conversation With That Many People
We Don't Have a Whole Day
ou Must Have an Agenda to Accomplish Anything
Sometimes It's Not a Good Idea to Tell the Truth
Relinquishing Control Is Dangerous---Someone Might Get Hurt
No Leader Should Mean No Facilitator
Being More Than Doing
Appendix: A Recipe for Dialogue 201(36)
Bibliography 237(6)
Index 243

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