Preface to the Madison Books edition | p. 11 |
Introduction: Reinventing Love | p. 13 |
The Foggers and the Facilitators | p. 20 |
A Theory of Love | p. 23 |
The Elusive Emotion | |
The Critical Question | p. 31 |
"I Love You" | p. 35 |
Love and Reciprocity | p. 38 |
Romantic Love | p. 42 |
Other Cultures | p. 48 |
The History of Love | p. 54 |
Love as Identity | p. 62 |
The Paradox of Love | p. 64 |
Getting Clear (About Love) | |
Is Love a Feeling? | p. 76 |
Love and Relationships | p. 82 |
All or Nothing: The Idealization of Love | p. 88 |
Love Stories | p. 97 |
Beauty as the Basis of Love | p. 103 |
Beyond Romeo and Juliet: Love Among the Elderly | p. 117 |
"Falling in Love" | |
Love and its Vicissitudes: "The Real Thing" | p. 129 |
The Joys of Sex | p. 134 |
Love at First Sight | p. 140 |
The Perils and Pleasures of Romantic Attraction: Why We Fall in Love | p. 147 |
Reasons for Love | p. 153 |
Love and Fantasy | p. 160 |
From Falling to Being in Love: The Coordination Problem | p. 168 |
Sleeping Together: Snugglers and Solipsists | p. 174 |
Loving and in Love | p. 179 |
The Self in Love | |
The Identity Theory of Love | p. 194 |
The Indeterminacy of the Self | p. 199 |
The Romantic Creation of the Self | p. 204 |
Sex and the Shared Self | p. 209 |
The Importance of Privacy | p. 217 |
Romantic Roles | p. 223 |
The Dimensions of Identity ("Do Opposites Attract?") | p. 231 |
Private Virtues | p. 238 |
From Dialectic to Dynamics | p. 249 |
The Dynamics of Love: Making Love Last | |
Caring and the Myth of Selfishness | p. 255 |
Love and Time | p. 262 |
Intimacy | p. 272 |
Equality and the Problem of Power | p. 283 |
Possession and Possessiveness | p. 300 |
The Importance of Fights in Love | p. 310 |
Friendship as the Foundation of Love | p. 313 |
The Meaning of Fidelity | p. 323 |
The Waning of Love, and Keeping Love Alive | p. 329 |
Reinventing Love | p. 343 |
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