Foreword | |
Preface | |
Acknowledgements | |
Introduction | |
In Memory of Samuel Yves Lyman Laigle | |
Defining SIDS | |
What SIDS Is and What SIDS Is Not | |
Consider the Numbers | |
SIDS Then and Now: A Personal and Political History | |
Baby Ben | |
Empty Arms | |
A Mental Replay of Thursday, March 21, 1991 | |
Untitled | |
From Death to Life with Meloni | |
The Sitting Time | |
Grief's Healing Rage | |
To the Man Upstairs | |
How Can Therapy Help with Guilt? | |
The Women in My Family | |
Grasping at Straws To Blame Ourselves | |
Footprints | |
Angel | |
For Allen Douglas Alvey, III | |
One Point of View | |
"Why? Why Me?" | |
A Grandmother Asks, "Why?" | |
SIDS | |
Desiree Spencer Stamps | |
The Unique Burden of Fathers | |
The Missing Person: An Interview with Pete Petit of Healthdyne | |
An Awesome Dream | |
My Would-Be Perfect Family | |
Surviving a Bereaved Wife | |
Always in My Heart | |
Amy, Amy | |
My Brother | |
He Should Have Been My Best Man: An Interview with Curtis Schweitzer | |
Helping Siblings Cope with Death | |
Sadness in May | |
How We Helped Our Children...and How They Helped Us | |
Excerpts from "The Haunting Memory of SIDS" | |
For My Baby Sister Stephanie | |
What Mister Rogers Has To Say: An Interview with Hedda Sharapan | |
Oh, for the Purely Material Losses | |
A Letter to My Grandson, Jacob Barlowe Kruse | |
Life's Miracle | |
The Double Hurt of Grandparents | |
Sweet Memories of Jacob Barlowe Kruse | |
Forgive Me, My Daughter | |
As Child-Care Providers, It's Our Baby, Too | |
Catey | |
The Dos and Don'ts of Helping a SIDS Survivor | |
A Friend's Memory of William Kendal Herrera | |
Letter from a Friend | |
Untitled | |
Just Say, "I'm Sorry" | |
Befriending the Grieving | |
A Comforting Note from Friends in England | |
Obituary of Christian Horchler | |
A Christian Celebration of Christian | |
William David Waugh | |
Eulogy for Margaret Hood Schuth: A Gift from Her Mother | |
Planning a Special Funeral | |
The Funeral Director and Home: An Interview with Melonie Wilhelm Wagner | |
"How Many Children Do You Have?" | |
The Glass Half Full | |
Going Out into the World Again | |
How I Survived My Baby's Death | |
Learning To Live Again | |
A Letter to Michael | |
Memories of My Daughter | |
A Prayer for Spring | |
Surviving Anniversaries and Holidays | |
How Therapy Can Help with Milestones | |
A Letter to LaChelle | |
Kathy's Day | |
Marking the Milestones When You Have Lost Your Only Child | |
Professional Help | |
Untitled | |
A SIDS Parent Counseling SIDS Survivors | |
Hitting It Off with a Counselor: An Interview with Mike Hitch | |
My Lifeline: An Interview with Gwen Robinson | |
Dos and Don'ts for Emergency Responders | |
Baby Not Breathing: An Interview with Mark Stillpass | |
SIDS and the Homicide Detective: An Interview with J. Richard Salen and Steve Kerpelman | |
The "Suspicious" Loss of Twins | |
The Role of the Medical Examiner | |
Thoughts on a Subsequent Pregnancy | |
Another Baby with Dark Brown Eyes | |
Celine | |
Room for More Angels | |
The Haunting Memory of SIDS | |
Forever in Our Hearts | |
A Clinical View of Monitoring | |
Tips for Home Monitoring: An Interview with Barb Follett of Kirson Medical Equipment | |
When You've Lost Your Only Boy or Only Girl | |
The Effect of Premonitions of SIDS on Grieving and Healing | |
Life After SIDS: What is Possible? | |
Twenty-Four Years Later: The Arlette Schweitzer Story | |
How Therapy Can Help Us Move Forward | |
Letter to Justin | |
Letter to Michelle Elizabeth Dickerson | |
Letter from My Child | |
Thirty Years Later, a Look at Peter's Gifts: An Interview with George Keeler and Kay Keeler | |
Moving Forward by Raising Money To Fight SIDS: An Interview with Susan Hollander of the CJ Foundation for SIDS | |
Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep | |
The Sailing Ship | |
Rise Up Slowly, Angel | |
For Anyone Who Has Lost a Child | |
Ryan | |
My New Home | |
A Letter from Grandma Nelson | |
Chad: Our Little Angel | |
Michael Carroll Hitch | |
Jake | |
As Days Go By | |
For Zachary | |
Another Teardrop Falls | |
Ode to Jasmine | |
Reliving the Years | |
For Alyssa Marie Shaver | |
Epilogue | |
Appendix | |
Bibliography | |
About Joani Nelson Horchler | |
About Robin Rice Morris | |
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