Introduction | |
What Are Relationships and How Do They Work? | p. 1 |
Sullivan's theory of human relationships | p. 4 |
First Stage: Infancy (birth to two years) | p. 5 |
Second Stage: Childhood (two to four or five years) | p. 7 |
Third State: Juvenile Era (about five to ten years) | p. 9 |
Later Stages of Development (about nine to early adolescence) | p. 11 |
The four phases of a relationship | p. 12 |
The Choice Phase | p. 13 |
The Beginning Phase | p. 14 |
The Deepening Phase | p. 16 |
The Ending Phase | p. 18 |
What's next? | p. 20 |
The Language of Relationships | p. 21 |
How language works | p. 23 |
Nonverbal communication and relationships | p. 25 |
Major types of nonverbal behavior | p. 29 |
Facial Expression | p. 29 |
Paralanguage | p. 33 |
Personal Space | p. 36 |
Touch | p. 38 |
Posture | p. 39 |
Gesture, Objectics, and Rhythm | p. 41 |
What's next? | p. 43 |
Infancy (Birth to Two Years) | p. 45 |
Order and predictability | p. 46 |
Locus of Control | p. 48 |
Locus of Control Scale for Adults | p. 50 |
A sense of self | p. 56 |
Using Nonverbal Language To Build a Strong Sense of Self | p. 58 |
The Adult's Self-Concept | p. 61 |
A secure attachment relationship | p. 63 |
How Attachment Relationships Develop | p. 64 |
Fostering a Secure Attachment Relationship | p. 73 |
What's next? | p. 79 |
Childhood (Two to Five Years) | p. 81 |
Parents, children, and the attachment relationship | p. 82 |
Setting the Tone for Learning How To Relate | p. 83 |
Helping Kids Move from Dependence Toward Independence | p. 85 |
Creating a Holding Environment | p. 86 |
Fostering a Secure Attachment Relationship in Young Children | p. 88 |
Repairing the Attachment Relationship | p. 92 |
Spending Time with Your Children | p. 96 |
Breaking the Cycle of Unhealthy Parenting | p. 98 |
Learning to relate through communication | p. 103 |
Communicating with Words | p. 104 |
Communicating Without Words: Reading and Sending Nonverbal Cues | p. 106 |
Understanding Feelings | p. 113 |
Learning to relate through play | p. 116 |
Setting the Stage for Play | p. 116 |
Practicing Social Skills Through Play | p. 117 |
Learning the Rules of Peer Relationships Through Play | p. 119 |
Fostering "Good" Play in Children | p. 122 |
Repairing Problems in Children's Play Skills | p. 128 |
What's next? | p. 129 |
The Juvenile Stage (Five to Ten Years) | p. 131 |
Learning to make friends among peers | p. 134 |
Establishing a healthy sense of control | p. 177 |
Conclusion | p. 181 |
Selected Bibliography | p. 186 |
Acknowledgments | p. 189 |
Index | p. 190 |
About the Authors | p. 195 |
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