Tales from the Expat Harem Foreign Women in Modern Turkey

by Ashman, Anastasia M; Gökmen, Jennifer Eaton

• ISBN13: 9781580051552
• ISBN10: 1580051553
• Edition: Reprint
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2006-02-22
• Publisher: Seal Press

Summary

As the Western world struggles to comprehend the paradoxes of modern Turkey, Tales from the Expat Harem reveals its most personal nuances. This illuminating anthology provides a window into the country from the perspective of thirty-two expatriates from seven different nations—artists, entrepreneurs, Peace Corps volunteers, archaeologists, missionaries, and others—who established lives in Turkey for work, love, or adventure. Through narrative essays covering the last four decades, these diverse women unveil the mystique of the “Orient,” describe religious conflict, embrace cultural discovery, and maneuver familial traditions, customs, and responsibilities. Poignant, humorous, and transcendent, the essays take readers to weddings and workplaces, down cobbled Byzantine streets, into boisterous bazaars along the Silk Road, and deep into the feminine stronghold of steamy Ottoman bathhouses. The outcome is a stunning collection of voices from women suspended between two homes as they redefine their identities and reshape their worldviews.

Author Biography

ANASTASIA M. ASHMAN is a career essayist specializing in personal tales of cultural adventure. She has spent ten years working for literary agents and producers of film, television, and Broadway theater. She has been published in Cornucopia, a magazine for connoisseurs of Turkey, Dow Jones’ Far Eastern Economic Review, The Asian Wall Street Journal, and The Village Voice. Born and raised in Berkeley, California, she holds a degree in Classical Greek, Roman, and Near Eastern Archaeology from Bryn Mawr, and lives in Istanbul with her husband, Burc Sahinoglu.

JENNIFER EATON GOKMEN is a writer captivated by the people and customs of Turkey, her home for the past decade. For the past six years Ms. Gokmen has served as International Coordinator for the Kadikoy Municipality Annual Folkdance Festival showcasing two hundred ethnic dancers and musicians each summer. A native of Michigan, she holds a degree in Creative Writing and American and English Literature from Western Michigan University. She has been a regular contributor to the monthly city guide Time Out Istanbul. She lives with her husband, Bilgehan, in Istanbul.

Table of Contents

Losing my gender at Troy	p. 3
Orienting express	p. 10
Hello, I love you	p. 24
The painting or the boy	p. 37
Conversion in Erzurum	p. 46
The beat of a different drummer	p. 56
Coming clean in Kayseri	p. 71
Haze	p. 75
The goddess metamorphosis	p. 91
FeminIstanbul	p. 98
Forever after, for now	p. 109
Village bride	p. 117
A fine kettle of fish	p. 129
Trying the knot, Ottoman princess-style	p. 136
Dancing my way home	p. 151
From the hip	p. 160
The language of family	p. 169
The food factory	p. 179
Cherry pie	p. 189
Water under the bridge	p. 197
The business of the bazaar	p. 209
Unpacking the Pazar Arabasi	p. 218
Ankara's fertile ground	p. 231
A mother's charms	p. 238
Evil eye exorcism	p. 245
Rescued by village intelligence	p. 253
The headman's pajamas	p. 259
Hijacked	p. 269
Failed missionary	p. 274
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