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Acknowledgments | p. iii |
Preface | p. vii |
How Does Love and Logic Work? | |
The Purpose of Love and Logic | p. 3 |
A Master Makes it Look Easy | p. 3 |
Creating a Higher Standard of Behavior | p. 6 |
Great Educators Are Experimenters | p. 7 |
Confronting the Myths About Discipline | p. 11 |
To Warn or Not to Warn | p. 11 |
Immediate Consequences vs. Delayed Consequences | p. 15 |
Do Students Need to Like Their Teachers? | p. 19 |
Relationship-Building Experiment | p. 21 |
The Three Rules of Love and Logic | p. 25 |
People Learn from Their Own Decisions | p. 26 |
Use Enforceable Limits | p. 26 |
Provide Choices Within Limits | p. 28 |
Apply Consequences with Empathy | p. 35 |
Finding Time for Love and Logic Discipline | p. 43 |
Dealing with Discipline on Your Own Terms | p. 43 |
Short, Sweet Interactions | p. 45 |
Dealing with Kids Who Feed off Each Other | p. 48 |
Discipline and Control | p. 55 |
Norms Teachers Must Face | p. 56 |
Other Factors That Affect Discipline | p. 61 |
Internalized Control vs. External Enforcement | p. 63 |
The Source or the Symptom? | p. 67 |
Perception and Behavior | p. 71 |
Our Perception Is Our Reality | p. 71 |
Self-Worth and the Desire to Avoid Pain | p. 74 |
Our Field of Awareness | p. 77 |
Our Sphere of Influence | p. 82 |
Changing Behavior in the Classroom | p. 89 |
Principles vs. Systems | p. 99 |
The Philosophy of Discipline | p. 100 |
Teaching Without a Thermostat | p. 103 |
Consistent Reactions or Consistent Outcomes? | p. 105 |
The Only Rule You Need | p. 107 |
The Four Key Principles of Love and Logic | |
Principle 1: The Enhancement of Self-Concept | p. 115 |
Why is Self-Concept at an All-Time Low? | p. 115 |
Who We Believe We Are | p. 120 |
The Role of Implied Messages | p. 124 |
The Role of Achievement | p. 127 |
Principle 2: Shared Control | p. 135 |
From Intimidation to Manipulation | p. 136 |
From Control to Cooperation | p. 138 |
Choices Within Limits | p. 142 |
Avoiding the Cycle of Defiance | p. 150 |
Principle 3: Consequences with Empathy | p. 157 |
Making the Decision to Change | p. 158 |
The Difference Between Consequences and Punishment | p. 163 |
Guidelines for Administering Consequences | p. 168 |
Principle 4: Shared Thinking | p. 173 |
Thinking: Who Does All the Work? | p. 174 |
The Power of Induced Thinking | p. 175 |
Trials over Time | p. 181 |
Anchoring and the Bias Effect | p. 184 |
Developing the Attitude of Relearning | p. 187 |
Realities and Myths | |
Styles of Teaching | p. 195 |
Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and Consultants | p. 195 |
Raising the Odds for Student Learning | p. 199 |
The Road to Achievement | p. 205 |
The Joy of Accomplishment | p. 208 |
Legal Considerations | p. 227 |
The Bottom Line | p. 227 |
Educational Malpractice | p. 231 |
Compelling State Interests | p. 238 |
Protection from Liability | p. 244 |
Implementing School Discipline: Systems vs. Principles | p. 249 |
The Systems Approach | p. 249 |
Systems Are Difficult to Maintain | p. 255 |
The Principles Approach | p. 258 |
Implementing Change | p. 266 |
Keeping the Process Alive | p. 273 |
Walled Lake Central High School One School's Approach to Love and Logic | p. 281 |
Self-Esteem Planning Phase | p. 281 |
Developing and Practicing the Plan | p. 291 |
Putting the Plan into Action | p. 293 |
Classroom Solutions Through Love and Logic Interventions | |
Breaking the Emotional Spell | p. 309 |
Getting Them to Fall in Love with You | p. 311 |
The Evil Eye | p. 315 |
Moving in on the Student | p. 315 |
Proximity | p. 316 |
Eye Contact and the "No" head-shake | p. 317 |
Let's Talk About This Later | p. 317 |
Can You Save That? Thanks | p. 318 |
Changing Location | p. 319 |
Is This the Right Place for That? | p. 324 |
"I" Messages | p. 326 |
Enforceable Statements | p. 337 |
Providing Choices | p. 338 |
Removing Student to Time-Out | p. 338 |
Evaluating Time-Out | p. 348 |
Use of the Building Administrator | p. 349 |
Giving an Appointment | p. 353 |
Creating a New Plan | p. 357 |
Applying Consequences | p. 359 |
Informational Letters | p. 361 |
Systematic Suspension | p. 363 |
Love and Logic Experiments, Charts, and Tips | |
Love and Logic Charts | |
Turn Your Words Into Gold | p. 29 |
Our Field of Awareness/Our Sphere of Influence | p. 84 |
The Two Basic Philosophies of Discipline | p. 101 |
The Cycle of Defiance | p. 153 |
Guidelines for Student/Teacher Interactions | p. 210 |
Guidelines for Avoiding Control Battles | p. 214 |
Guidelines for Utilizing Consequences in the Classroom | p. 217 |
Love and Logic Tips | |
Dealing with Power Struggles | p. 8 |
How to Destroy the Teaching Value of a Logical Consequence | p. 15 |
Rules for Giving Choices | p. 31 |
Consequences with Empathy | p. 37 |
Guiding Students to Solve Their Own Problems | p. 95 |
Using Negative Assertion | p. 121 |
Using Negative Assertion and Broken Record | p. 122 |
Gaining Control by Giving Some Away | p. 143 |
Thinking Words and Fighting Words | p. 146 |
Choices vs. Threats | p. 151 |
Possible Choices in the Classroom | p. 154 |
Punishment vs. Discipline | p. 170 |
Four Steps to Responsibility | p. 189 |
Styles of Teaching | p. 198 |
Affordable Price Tags | p. 219 |
A Core of Beliefs | p. 259 |
When Consequences Don't Work | p. 277 |
Setting Limits | p. 286 |
Better Ways to Say "No" | p. 294 |
Supportive Theory and Research for Teaching With Love and Logic | p. 367 |
Research and Readings | p. 373 |
References | p. 390 |
Index | p. 391 |
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