The Way Of The Superior Man

by Deida, David

• ISBN13: 9781591792574
• ISBN10: 1591792576
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2004-10-31
• Publisher: Sounds True

Summary

What is your true purpose in life? What do women really want? What makes a good lover? If you're a man reading this, you've undoubtedly asked yourself these questions-but you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now. In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men's lives-from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality-to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise. "It is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart," writes David Deida. "It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine." The Way of the Superior Man presents the ultimate challenge-and reward-for today's man: to discover the "unity of heart and spine" through the full expression of consciousness and love in the infinite openness of the present moment. Book jacket.

Table of Contents

Introduction	p. 1
A Man's Way
Stop Hoping for a Completion of Anything in Life	p. 14
Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts	p. 17
Live As If Your Father Were Dead	p. 19
Know Your Real Edge and Don't Fake It	p. 20
Always Hold to Your Deepest Realization	p. 23
Never Change Your Mind Just to Please a Woman	p. 25
Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship	p. 27
Lean Just Beyond Your Edge	p. 29
Do It for Love	p. 31
Enjoy Your Friends' Criticism	p. 35
If You Don't Know Your Purpose, Discover It, Now	p. 37
Be Willing to Change Everything in Your Life	p. 39
Don't Use Your Family As an Excuse	p. 44
Don't Get Lost in Tasks and Duties	p. 48
Stop Hoping for Your Woman to Get Easier	p. 51
Dealing with Women
Women Are Not Liars	p. 58
Praise Her	p. 61
Tolerating Her Leads to Resenting Her	p. 63
Don't Analyze Your Woman	p. 66
Don't Suggest That a Woman Fix Her Own Emotional Problem	p. 69
Stay with Her Intensity-To a Point	p. 74
Don't Force the Feminine to Make Decisions	p. 77
Working with Polarity and Energy
Your Attraction to the Feminine Is Inevitable	p. 82
Choose a Woman Who Is Your Complementary Opposite	p. 86
Know What Is Important in Your Woman	p. 92
You Will Often Want More Than One Woman	p. 96
Young Women Offer You a Special Energy	p. 98
Each Woman Has a "Temperature" That Can Heal or Irritate You	p. 101
What Women Really Want
Choose a Woman Who Chooses You	p. 108
What She Wants Is Not What She Says	p. 110
Her Complaint Is Content-Free	p. 114
She Doesn't Really Want to Be Number One	p. 118
Your Excellent Track Record Is Meaningless to Her	p. 121
She Wants to Relax in the Demonstration of Your Direction	p. 123
Your Dark Side
You Are Always Searching for Freedom	p. 128
Own Your Darkest Desires	p. 132
She Wants the "Killer" in You	p. 136
She Needs Your Consciousness to Match Her Energy	p. 139
Feminine Attractiveness
The Feminine Is Abundant	p. 144
Allow Older Women Their Magic	p. 146
Turn Your Lust into Gifts	p. 149
Never Allow Your Desire to Become Suppressed or Depolarized	p. 152
Use Her Attractiveness As a Slingshot Through Appearance	p. 157
Body Practices
Ejaculation Should Be Converted or Consciously Chosen	p. 162
Breathe Down the Front	p. 168
Ejaculate Up the Spine	p. 173
Men's and Women's Yoga of Intimacy
Take into Account the Primary Asymmetry	p. 182
You Are Responsible for the Growth in Intimacy	p. 187
Insist on Practice and Growth	p. 191
Restore Your Purpose in Solitude and with Other Men	p. 194
Practice Dissolving	p. 199
David Deida Resources	p. 201
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