What Dying People Want Practical Wisdom For The End Of Life

by Kuhl, David

• ISBN13: 9781586481971
• ISBN10: 1586481975
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2003-07-10
• Publisher: HACHETTE

Summary

Facing death results in more fear and anxiety than any other human experience. Though much has been done to address the physical pain suffered by those with a terminal illness, Western medicine has been slow to understand and alleviate the psychological and spiritual distress that comes with the knowledge of death. InWhat Dying People Want,Dr. David Kuhl begins to bridge that gap by addressing end-of-life realities--practical and emotional--through his own experiences as a doctor and through the words and experiences of people who knew that they were dying. Dr. Kuhl presents ways of finding new life in the process of dying, understanding the inner reality of living with a terminal illness, and addressing the fear of pain, as well as pain itself. He also offers concrete guidance on how to enhance doctor/patient relationships and hold family meetings, and provides an introduction to the process of life review. It is possible to find meaning and peace in the face of death.What Dying People Want"helps us learn to view the knowledge of death as a gift, not a curse." (New Times)

Author Biography

Dr. David Kuhl began his career in palliative care sixteen years ago, providing medical care for people with cancer in his private practice, and subsequently developed a palliative care program for St. Paul's Hospital in Vancouver. His team at St. Paul's has attended thousands of people at the end of life. A Soros Faculty Scholar and a frequent speaker on palliative care all over North America, Kuhl is currently developing a program for doctors on dealing with terminally ill patients. He lives in British Columbia with his family.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments	ix
Introduction: Facing Death	xv
CHAPTER ONE Time and Anxiety	1	(32)
CHAPTER TWO Bad News	33	(38)
CHAPTER THREE Physical Pain	71	(26)
CHAPTER FOUR Being Touched; Being in Touch	97	(40)
CHAPTER FIVE Life Review	137	(28)
CHAPTER SIX Speaking the Truth	165	(34)
CHAPTER SEVEN Longing to Belong	199	(24)
CHAPTER EIGHT Self-Realization: Who Am I?	223	(26)
CHAPTER NINE Transcendence	249	(26)
Conclusion: Embracing Life	275	(18)
Appendix: Talking to Terminally Ill Patients: Guidelines for Physicians	293	(4)
Notes	297	(8)
Bibliography	305	(4)
Permissions	309	(2)
Index	311