List of Tables | p. xi |
Acknowledgments | p. xiii |
Introduction | p. 3 |
Diverse Experiences | p. 9 |
A Study of First-Time Parents | p. 12 |
The Costs of Privatized Responsibility for Children | p. 27 |
Studying Motherhood, Fatherhood, and Gender | p. 30 |
The Book | p. 34 |
Giving Birth: The Dynamics of Support and Agency | p. 37 |
Giving Birth in the Hospital: Agony, Ecstasy, and Places in Between | p. 39 |
Labouring to Give Birth: 'Swimming in a Sea of Pain' | p. 44 |
Giving Birth under Medical Management: 'I Felt Like I Was at the Hands of the Doctors' | p. 51 |
Two More Stories of Childbirth: The Benefits of 'The Epidural God' and the Help of Others | p. 59 |
Contextualizing the Challenges of Childbirth: The Importance of Responsibility and Support | p. 63 |
The Social Relations of Childbirth: 'Everybody Really Helped' | p. 70 |
A Take-Home Message | p. 72 |
Wrapping Up | p. 73 |
Becoming Parents: The Challenges of the Postpartum Period | p. 77 |
Postpartum Problems: 'A Vast Pit of Exhaustion' | p. 78 |
Contrasting Postpartum Experiences: 'It's Great Such Joy!' | p. 85 |
Towards Explaining the Different Experiences: 'A Mother Needs a Mother' | p. 88 |
Being a Father: 'It's Not Necessarily Something That Comes Naturally' | p. 94 |
Managing Dependency and the Need for Support: Taking Care of Dad | p. 105 |
The Support of Others | p. 112 |
Lessons from the Postpartum Period | p. 115 |
Becoming Mothers, Making Fathers: Negotiations in the Economy of Care | p. 117 |
Diverse Mothering Practices: From 'Wearing the Baby' to 'Letting Him Cry a Bit' | p. 120 |
Mothering as a 'Class Act': The Prerequisites of Intensive Mothering | p. 126 |
The Material Conditions of Intensive Mothering | p. 126 |
The Personal Resources behind Intensive Mothering | p. 129 |
A Priceless Time? | p. 130 |
Negotiating Intensive Mothering: The Giving and Receiving of Care and 'Consent' | p. 133 |
Intensive Mothering: It Takes Two (or More) | p. 137 |
Parenting: A Joint Venture | p. 140 |
The Economy of Care | p. 143 |
Constructing Fathers, Constructing Mothers | p. 144 |
Considerations on Intensive Mothering | p. 151 |
Taking Care of the Baby: Reproducing Gender Differences and Divisions? | p. 154 |
'All of a Sudden, I Was a Woman': Motherhood as Transformation and a Basis of Gender Divisions | p. 157 |
'I'm Out Working and She's at Home with the Baby': The Conventional Couples | p. 162 |
Reproducing Gendered Divisions, Disrupting Gendered Divisions | p. 166 |
Good Dads, Good Husbands: 'Nothing Compares to Just Holding Your Kids. I Love It.' | p. 168 |
Parenting Differently | p. 171 |
Parental Responsibility: 'Fathers Come in Different FlavoursàBut a Mother Is a Mother Is a Mother' | p. 178 |
Reproducing Gender Inequality? | p. 183 |
Home Making and Making Family | p. 185 |
The Meaning of Parenthood - and Its Material Requirements: 'A House and a Baby' | p. 191 |
Pressures to Do Housework: 'Because I'm Home, the Housework Should Be Taken Care Of | p. 195 |
Home Making and Making Family: 'It's a Matter of Having Family Time' | p. 202 |
Contested Terrain: 'There's Absolutely No Reason Why We Shouldn't Be Splitting These Things' | p. 205 |
Making Family Together: 'I'm Just Trying to Share the Load and Be Fair about It' | p. 212 |
Conclusion | p. 217 |
Being Mothers, Being Fathers: The Costs of Privatized Responsibility for Children | p. 220 |
'One of the Hardest Transitions I've Had to Make Is from Being a Person Who Is Out in the World to Being Very Enclosed' | p. 227 |
'Motherhood Means a Lot of Worry to Me' | p. 233 |
High-Demand, Low-Control, Stressful Work: 'I Could Just Sit on the Floor and CryàUntil I Get My Frustrations Out' | p. 237 |
'My Time Is Not My Own' | p. 241 |
Putting the Problems in Context | p. 246 |
A New Life and Changed Relationships | p. 249 |
Divided Lives, Troubled Relationships | p. 255 |
No Care, No Gratitude, Lost Love: 'Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?' | p. 256 |
Nursing Anger: 'I Think I've Been Really Angry a Lot of the Time' | p. 265 |
Time Famine: 'We Don't Spend Much Time Together' | p. 268 |
Joint Parenting: 'I Just Feel Like There's More Love' | p. 275 |
Conclusion | p. 281 |
Conclusion | p. 285 |
Notes | p. 295 |
References | p. 307 |
Author Index | p. 321 |
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