Why Can't You See Me?: Good Men Do Exist!

by Cokley, Christopher J.; Blake, Aaron M.

• ISBN13: 9780974749600
• ISBN10: 0974749605
• Format: Paperback
• Copyright: 2003-11-28
• Publisher: Lightning Source Inc

Table of Contents

I. ORIGIN OF A GOOD MAN
Chronology of Dating	29	(12)
God Created Man, Women Defined Him	41	(4)
The Myths about Men in America	45	(12)
Men and the Race Card	57	(8)
II. THROUGH THE EYES OF GOOD MEN
The 20's: A Missed Opportunity to Find Love	65	(6)
How the Hip Hop Culture Redefined Dating	71	(16)
The Truth about the Game	87	(8)
Does Dating Begin or End in Your 30's	95	(6)
Change Your Results, Change Your Priorities	101	(2)
Sex is Just a Piece of the Puzzle	103	(8)
What Will it Be....Boys or Toys	111	(4)
Sexual Revolution: Pleasure, Power, or Love	115	(4)
What Does God Say About Dating	119	(4)
III. WHAT MEN WANT AND WOMEN NEED
Attitudes That Cause Us to Fail at Love	123	(8)
What is A Good Man	131	(4)
The Traditional Role of Men and Women	135	(8)
What Men Really Want in Women	143	(10)
Are You Sure You're Ready for A Baller	153	(6)
How to Meet and Date A Good Man	159	(18)
Playing Hard to Get Won't Get You Got	177	(4)
No More Drama In Our Relationships	181	(14)
The Aftermath	195	(10)
IV. WILL YOU MARRY ME?
We Need Each Other, Believe it or not	205	(4)
Are You Living By God's or Man's Plan	209	(8)
Marriage is The Answer	217	(6)
Selfishness May Equal Self-Destruction	223