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Do you wonder if your life makes a difference in this world? Do you think you should be a clone of Mother Teresa or a replica of Catherine Booth-or at least more like the woman down the street? The truth is, God created each of us as an original. Gold Medallion Award-winning author Dr. Leslie Parrott believes that whether you know it or not, you are already making a distinctive difference by the life you live. In this book she helps you see that the more you understand the difference you are making, the bigger that difference will be.

acknowledgments	9	(2)
prelude	11	(4)
one a narrow path	15	(10)
two discovery beach	25	(8)
three the grinding stone	33	(12)
four my head is in the dirt	45	(12)
five squashed cabbage leaves	57	(10)
six dream venti	67	(16)
interlude	83	(2)
seven sea glass	85	(8)
eight band of sisters	93	(10)
nine star and starfish	103	(12)
ten web of connection	115	(12)
eleven playing games	127	(10)
twelve martha clay	137	(8)
interlude	145	(2)
thirteen human touch	147	(8)
fourteen ultimate good	155	(8)
fifteen whisper test	163	(10)
sixteen too late?	173	(10)
seventeen anyway	183	(14)
interlude	197	(2)
eighteen compassionate witnesses	199	(12)
nineteen only seeds	211	(8)
twenty barking pig	219	(10)
twenty-one a rare road	229	(6)
postlude	235	(2)
notes	237

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You Matter More Than You Think
Copyright © 2006 by Leslie Parrott
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Parrott, Leslie L., 1964-
You matter more than you think : what a woman needs to know about the
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one
a narrow path
I took the road less traveled by,
and that has made all the difference.
Robert Frost
Let’s clear this up right at the beginning. I’m no Mother Teresa,
and chances are, neither are you. I used to think joining
the Sisters of Charity or some other compassionate group
and devoting my life to the poor and suffering was the only real
way to make a difference. For a time, I bought nearly all my
clothes at secondhand thrift shops and volunteered at a nursing
home and a downtown soup kitchen.
With the little money I had, I gave all I could to worthy
causes. I even spent a night on the streets of the inner city, all
by myself, in an “urban plunge” to get a glimpse of what it was
like to be homeless.
I was dead set on finding my way on the road less traveled
— and on making a difference.
“The road less traveled.”
It’s a simple phrase of poetry penned by Robert Frost, one of
the most quoted poets of our time. This line of poetry is quoted
often for good reason, and I could not resist its pull. Something
deep inside me still resonates with these words, even after hearing
them time and again. For who, when faced with options,
doesn’t want to take the road that makes a difference?
All the difference!
Being a poet myself, it’s a phrase I’ve identified with since I was
a girl — about the time I began looking up to significant women.
Catherine Booth, the cofounder of the Salvation Army,
became one of my heroes. Like Mother Teresa, she wasn’t
consumed by convention and was determined to do whatever
it took to make a difference in her eighteenth-century England
— even if it was “not the job of a woman” to do so.
I’ve always loved her response to an uptight, pious man
who held up his Bible and argued, “Paul said to the Corinthians
it is a shame for women to speak in the church.”
“Oh yes, so he did,” said Catherine. “But in the first place
this is not a church, and in the second place, I am not a Corinthian;
besides,” she continued, looking at the man’s wife, “Paul
said in the same epistle that it was good for the unmarried to
remain so.”1
You’ve got to admire that kind of spunk in a woman. At
least I do.
But I’ve got to confess, I’m no Catherine Booth either.
In fact, my life these days is ensconced with all the typical
trappings of a modern married woman with two children
living in the mainstream. These days, you’re far more likely
to find me browsing at Baby Gap for my toddler than searching
the racks of a thrift store. And you’re more likely to find
me sipping a latte at Starbucks than feeding the homeless with
soup at a shelter. Maybe the same is true for you, whatever
your situation. You long to make a difference but feel you don’t
measure up to many other women.
Somewhere between the idealism of my college years and
the pragmatism of real life, I’ve wondered if I’ve forsaken the
road less traveled altogether. After all, how can I make a difference
when some days I can’t even find my keys?
We all have those days where things go wrong.
Like the day I was on my way to the grocery store when I
glanced in the rearview mirror and saw that my five-year-old
had fallen fast asleep.
My mind sifted through the possibilities . . .
I could wake John up when we get to the grocery store . . . but
then he’ ll be really crabby, and once he’s awake, he won’t go back
to sleep.
Or I could just turn around, take him home, and tuck him
into bed since Les is working there. I could grocery shop just that
much faster.
I knew Les was hard at work on a deadline, but it was more
likely that John would sleep at home than in the grocery cart.
So I returned home, carried John into the house, tucked him
into bed, and alerted Les to the fact that he’d be in charge of
our little one for a while.
I sped back to the car with the kind of urgency that only a
mom trying to fit in multiple tasks during a child’s naptime can
entirely identify with. Jumping into the driver’s seat, I shifted
the car into reverse, backed out of the garage . . . and promptly
ripped the door off the car.
The door I’d forgotten to close when I’d carried John into
the house.
The ripping and tearing sound sent Les bolting out of his
study, which is directly above the garage.

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